3.29.2009

Nudity

Our body is a treasure, beauty and very special. Everyone has sex, male or female and can be homosexual or heterosexual doenst matter...
Sex is part of us for transmit affection for other person or for identify us. Today people know the human body but in centuries ago, nudity was shameful. In some cultures, for example women hide her face and your body for preserve for her partners. Other cultures in Africa nudity for them are normal and they live without problems with their nudity, of course, I am talking in people that lives far from civilization...
In my opinion I think is important preserve or body, because is personal and in real world exist people that have dirty thoughts and look at someone and only think that want make sex with that person, sure, I am talking in sexaholics that compare people to objects... Is not necessary hide our face like some women in some cultures, for preserve our body.
Our genitals must be hide because is very personal and only have acess to our intimacy the person who we must share our lifes. In for example pornografy, actors that do that, they show their body to everyone and use their body like a objects and if they want build a relationship for example, the partner dont enjoy the pleasure of be the only one because if his partner make sex with everyone, what he have is too share for other men and he have a partner used many times... and is not the only pornografy actors but is too people who are swigger or have many partners. In general this people cant make serious relationships because they share their sex to everyone and everyone has acess to their intimacy so, they loose the intimacy and the private connection that sex gives.
Man body is very beautiful, and is very complex understand the importance of sex, because sex has many values, love, religion, pleasure, contact, share, reproduction and other.
We arent objects, we are human and for example animals when they do love, they dont treat the partner like a object...well some of them, in case of black widow, sometimes female eat the male but I think he die because the objective of his life is only do that, but when they mate you dont see they call bad names, make ridiculous scenes, use partner like a object...
Exist many beautiful man and people who are looking for the serious partner and when we see someone that are very attractive, in a man for example, and next moment you see that he have a great body but his thoughts are completly diferent of yours. ..So, is important find the balance for find our partner and dont loose time.

3.22.2009

Marriage




Marriage is a serious thing... Who gives this step, found the love and the perfect partner for have one serious relationship. Marriage in ancient times was considerate pure and a union that finished only with death. In ancient times marriages was only recognize between a man and a woman and I ask was? For example in ancient Greece homosexuality was present and rich men date with young males and was considerate normal at the time. In Egypt too homosexuality was present, for example Khnumhotep and Niankhkhnum were ancient Egyptian royal servants. They shared the title of Overseer of the Manicurists in the Palace of King Niuserre during the Fifth Dynasty of Egyptian pharaohs, circa 2400 B.C., and are listed as "royal confidants" in their joint tomb. They are speculated to be the first recorded same-sex couple in history.
In modern days same sex marriage in some places of the world are recognize others no... Unfornatelly in California same sex marriage was banned because of church and ignorant ideas... Doesnt matter if are heterosexuals or homosexuals, love is a bless from nature and God.
When two creature find the love and feel that want build a rare connection and share their lifes, this gift is in reality a bless from God because they want establish one connection for entire life and became one.
Build a relationship is very serious and our "temple" must be clean for we share our soul.
I think is not need a document that says "you are married" ... and I think too, that is right two people of same sex have the right to marry because they want tell society that they are together, so, be gay or dont is a right for everyone.
Imagine your life with your partner, share your life with him, make sports, go museums, gyms, travel, make love, make plans for the future... what great thing.
We must remember that love is a gift and is one thing that we must work to get it and honor. For those who found love they know that what they have is one thing that will disapear only when they die. Is important too dont loose time with superficial things, speed dates, and more because life is a treasure that pass quickey.

3.18.2009

Sexaholic

One person is sexaholic if is addited to sex and cant control his behavior... Like you read before, sex is one thing that is very personal because is our way for transmit affection, devotion and love so when people loose control about their instints they destroy the ability for have a heath relationship and become a sexaholic.
In society this is a taboo because no one talk about it, but is a reality that are now more present and this can have serious consequeces like one alcolic person.
I make one search about syntoms who maybe are sexaholic. 10 indications: 1ª-You have sex with more than one person a month. 2ª-You masturbate frequently 15 times a week. 3ª-You turn sexual partners into objects instead of "making love" with them. 4ª-You have more than 10 XXX videos or magazines at home. 5ª-You have anonymous sex. 6ª-You "cruise," but may call it 'people watching....' 7ª- You have sex in dangerous places. 8ª-You continually pursue "great sex." 9ª-You think about and/or talk about sex a lot. 10ª-You think that you may be a sexaholic.
Here some examples that I search. Society must have look at this and see that is a reality and change the behavior... Exist societies of anymous people who are sexaholic that can help people to recover. One serious consequence that is easy to see is for example, in the case of heterosexuals couples, the man, dont are loyal to his wife and sleep with other women. The same are the case of homosexuals...

3.14.2009

One

One, is that we only need... one partner, one human, one creature, one love. For build a relationship, we only need a partner. Is one for one. Our "temple" is rare and only who catch our heart can get in. Who are monogamous, want someone too monogamous and take very serious monogamy and fidelity.
In our times people almost loose the sense of monogamy and this can result in serious consequences. Exist people who pay many money for have a moments with quick pleasure and they do sex. Is almost impossible people make sex without feelings because sex is something that is very personal and have many value. If someone do sex without feelings in reality, I ask: you are human? or a machine? Many guys are like machines because they do sex without feelings, only for pleasure... Sex is our treasure and is something that is very personal because is our way for transmit our connection for other human. In our world sex, is in every part and special younger men start to fall in tentations. Consequences of course is pain because after the pleasure finished came the facts and people think that was so stupid do that, special with some person that they dont love. Sex gives many pleasure, of course, but is important be with someone that we feel that this person belongs to us. Society are in storm that calls "mecanic behavior" because most people do things without think about it. One example is: guys that have great bodies but only want speed dates like make sex with some person or other.
They do sex like eat a apple, and treat people like objects. Doenst matter for them if was X or Y, is just sex... One reason that monogamy is correct is because for example when two guys do love they are in contact 100 per cent because they feel their connection equal. If are, three guys making sex in reality the pleasure that they feel not are equal and their pleasure are 33.3333... per cent because "A" partner focus attention in "B" partner, "B" partner focus his attention in "C" and "C" partner focus his attention in "B" so "A" dont have equal pleasure. More partners, less equal pleasure. For have the equal pleasure, is one for one, 100% for 100%.
Sex is really hard understant and very complex. Man is beautiful creature and Man must be ambitions, have objectives, work for find perfection.
Even animals with their instints they can love and they do sex, but they do sex with honor... and they dont lie, use, like a object. Monogamous guys have many work to do, because find someone too monogamous, true person. loyal, and are really human and not like one machine is like find a diemant. When One couple of homosexuals do love they feel that their "temples" are connected and they enjoy the 100% of love.

3.08.2009

Places

Exist many places that people meet other people, but depends what you looking for... For us, homosexual men, monogamous, serious we need be careful with some places that we look for find our soulmate.
One of majority places that many men look for find the mister right is the Internet. The Internet have many things and maybe is a good place for try find our guy but exist sites that arent good for us. You saw a site that have great men but when you look closer you see that have many nudity and probably find the right guy there is zero per cent of probablility because is not good stay in sites that you see profile with photos that look disgusting like dicks, ridiculous photos, etc... But exist site serious that we can try find our guy, are sites that dont permit photos with nudity and maybe help you find the right one.
If you work, when you work maybe exist some interesting people around you that maybe you feels attracted, so with professional way you can know diferent people and maybe some day the right one appears and catch your heart. Exist too, other places like gyms that maybe you can know someone, coffee house, when you run or walk in parks, museum, cinema, travels, serious bars. General nightclubs not are good for find the one serious guy because many of this places are for people that only want one night of sex, so they go there to find one guy and make sex and bye.
Our soulmate can exist in any part of world, so we need look for him in many places as possible, like Internet with serious sites for find relationships, our place of work but of course we must be professional and seperate work from personal life, gyms, walk in street, travels, serious bars, museum etc...
We must dont forget that if we know one guy in Internet, travel or other place we must investigate this guy. One of greatest places for know past of someone or know if that person speaks the truth is look in Internet with the name of that person, word keys, in sites that are for sex, like speed dates. Many guys are look angels but when we see his past they transform in "shit" and we see that we loose our time with someone else that only want is a f"ck". We need be objective for find the right one. Our soulmate can live far, in other part of world, near of us...We dont know we must wait and look.