Responsibility

Responsibility is a important value that one person has. Responsibility is someone that is mature enough for respond for his errors or his behavior. Some person who have responsibility know that when we loose the sense of responsibilities we deal with consequences.
Many men and women today want be free, dont care about have responsibilities or dont care about commitment because commintment is necessary responsibility for mantein one relationship and think about the partner.
This responsibility is about our choices, acts, behavior that we have and the others, special the family.
Young people want live the life like the last day and I ask: what is a men without dreams, plans, or ambition for the future? well in my opinion is just one empty person because dreams, plans, and ambition is what make our world move, make evolution... Of course we dont know the future but our present give us clues about what is comming next. Our choices in present have consequences in the future. People today want what is easy to get, and many guys use their bodies to get this that is sex without commitment. They know that they can use a "friend" any time and send him go away any time and next choose other "friend" and etc. Close of 80% of gay guys do this. If 1 in 12 are gay people, see this 80% show that exist a small number who believe in relationships and special in love. Exist many gay people that fight for equal in marriage like the heterosexual couples and are people that believe in relationships. Almost gay guys dont care about relationships what they want is a large number of friends as possible and explore them. I believe that for example in California gay marriage was ban because some gay guys or girls vote ban the marriage so the fault is not all of church some gay people can have a little fault in that... we dont know... but see many guys who doesnt care about... can make us think that they vote for ban marriage.
For who believe in relationships and want share his life with other person know that all time is important for find who we love and dont loose time with illutions, empty people, bad friends, and look for find the partner because they know that soon or later we will receive the consequences of our choices and is not when we have sixty that we will make a relationship or make a family because for do this exist times that we must respect.
Exist people who doesnt care about family or other people. They are selfish enough for forget that they dont are alone, we have people that belong to us and care about us so our choices can be part of our family or friends. Like one song say "its now or never" means that we have one opportunity: born, live and death... Most of things that we do in our lifes is only one opportunity. Have responsibility is important because show us and others that we are mature enough for make a relationship, care about others and be a true man.

Strong

Strong is something that is not easy destroy, damage, modify, weak and is something that has one force that is better than the other forces. Strong is one quality of love that is very necessary for build one relationship. Love is strong because is unconditional and stay we our lifes until we die. Today people want what is weak, fake, casual, easy to get and dont care about be a human because a true human has one thing that is: affection. Like I say before affection is one sign of be human. The diference of be a human or animal is that for humans is very easy get affection and build connections. You can say: but casual dates is not show affection? No. No because in casual dates what only happen is sex, and behind these people do sex when they have casual dates they in reality dont show affection because one caracterists of have affection is mantein or miss or want stay with that person and not make "mecanic contact" and leave. Affection is you like one thing and you feels that you need that thing close of you. So, casual dates people meet one person stay with her some time and leave.
For example in other post about the homosexuality and bible, homosexuality is not clear but what is clear is fornication. Is very simple understand why in bible God condenn fornication because people when do sex without feelings, affection, true desire, honor, they only have a simple contact that is use the body and leave.
This is easy understand and is not necessary read the bible for take conclution about affection and human contact. Other religions say the same, doesnt matter religion.
Strong is very necessary because in relationships when exist dificult times like for example, distance, death... if love is strong enough, then will survive and is one connection that is pure and human. Only what is strong has force, what is weak loose. Is not the "boy next door", "easy going", "casual" that has force enough for find love, because what has force enough is strong and is unconditional.

Homosexuality and Bible

Homosexuality and Bible. Is subjective theme. Is homosexuality wrong in Bible? Or is other thing?
Homosexuality in Bible is not very clear and understand this is subjective but one thing that people cant say is that God hate homosexuals because in bible says that God love anyone, so He cant hate but of course He make justice.
The Bible in reality is a book that is about the human condition, life and death. Is homosexuality wrong? Of course no. This is simple to see because every person is diferent and every person has a unique nature and you can see that other animals do the same "behaviour" so they cant change because was mother Nature who give the "carts". In Bible says that God create women and men for procreation. This correct of course, but that is for some people because not everyone is heterosexual so people sometimes forget that Bible says history of some people in diferent time and diferent "scenario". In Bible exist three homosexual couples.
Ruth and Naomi and David and jonathan for example. People sometimes dont want see the truth and invent things that arent there. See the context of these couples of course can be subjective for some people but for who read this, take the true idea that they were more than friends not "only friends". For example Sodom and Gomorrah. If one person read with attention will see that situation was not about homosexuality because when the men of that city want make relations with the "angels" Lot give their daughters for the men so they leave the "angels" in peace, after that the city was destroyed. Why was the city destroyed? Because people who lived in that city were mean, dont have values, dont have respect for others, so if the motive was homosexuality of course some people maybe survive... like children. The true motive is very clear: fornication. The men of that city saw beautiful "men" arrive and they quick saw that was good satisfy their instints.
In Bible says that one thing that make God angry is fornication because our "temple" must be clean and a man must have values, ambition for fight for his dreams, honor for be a man, someone true that dont lie. Some people confuse homosexuality and fornication. In Bible when talk about homosexuality sometimes together is fornication but this fornication is not be homosexual but yes, have many relations at the same time. So no one can exactley say that Bible say about homosexuality is wrong or is a sin. Bible says too that God dont really agree with polygamy and have mutiple partners. Understand better this, what "God" says is that life is precious and we must have moral, values, treat other well, dont be materislists and more. People must remember that the Bible is a book of human condition, special dificult times, weakness, strong, problems that any human has.

Attraction and feelings

Attraction and feelings are two diferent things. Attraction is you feel that you physical feels attracted for someone and your "nature" is what command your desire. Feelings is you like or hate or love someone and is what your "inside" tells you.
Some people put this things together, attraction and feelings. Today attraction has more value than feelings because most of people, for them, physical apparence is very important and they forget the balance between attraction and feelings. Is important exist a balance because exist many people that have great body but their "inside" is empty and only have their inside "images" that their instints want. Exist too many people that have a beautiful "inside" but their apparence is not exactley accept for the rules of be model or something like this.
For guys who want find a guy that will make them happy is important give value to this two things. Is important because many guys who only give the importance for attraction is simple: they only want sex and is important too, because many guys who only give the importance for feelings forget their true "nature" (be homosexual or heterosexual), is our nature that will show us what we feel attracted or in other words: our genes.
Average is good word, because first is good meet a guy and see if his apparence is enough attracted for us and see too if their personality or "inside" or heart is enough good for us.
Balance is the key.

The kiss

If have a partner you like spend time with him, because you like him and you need him. The time that you and him are together is very important because is a time that you share with him, affection, conversation, feelings, touch, and kisses.
Affection is a human sign. Kiss your partner make you feel good and him and when you kiss him you feel that you make a connection with him.
Spend hours and hours kiss the partner is good for relationships. We can kiss the partner when we see movies together, walk on the beach, do sports, conversation. Hugs is very important too, like kisses so all affection is necessary for mantein a connection with the partner.
The moment of the kiss is when we feel that our partner belongs to us and is like a part of us that we want touch. When two humans kiss they stay connected and enjoy the touch.
Gay man can kiss his partner in public places like everyone (some places where dont exist ignorance) and is good a gay man show to other people that love his partner but sometimes is too much because exist that people that are always kiss in public that make people shy, is like that expression "get a room". Of course if we have a partner we can kiss him in public but with preference places like beach, large public places... not for example in the library where we are for study or read because we distract people.
Be a private person is very important and is good too for mantein intimacy. All secrets are between the couple. We must have proud of kiss the partner in public because is one person that belong to us but exist people that do this to much, for example, you are in seat public read and sundley arrive a couple that start kiss so with noises, you feel distract so you move for leave them alone with their intimacy.
Any way the kiss is good, is one sign that we love someone and we need this "someone" but of course we must have respect and share our intimacy with the right person.

Sex and affection

Sex and affection can be subjective for some people. When every people do sex they show affection? or is a "mecanic behavior"? For monogamous gay men that have a partner affection is very important in a relationship because is one sign of show to their partner that they love.
Affection is you feel attracted for your partner and you feel that you need him and feel that you want your partner close of you. Affection is like kiss your partner or send sign that you like him.
For guys that are "easy" and only prefer the easy things like do sex without commitment, use and next leave etc... these guys when they do sex they think that they show affection but of course is not truth. They of course can "like" this person but when they do sex with that person what they only want is get most pleasure possible and satisfy their "instints". They have what is called "mecanic behavior" and this is about being sexaholic that they use people like object that play and after they stay bored they look for other "object".
For monogamous and gay men, no, affection in sex is very important like kiss many times the partner, say beautiful or hot (In the good sense without been dirty) words, touch all body and stay close as possible. In "easy" guys no, they do sex and of course they kiss their partner but is in a "cold" way.

Lust

Being superficial person, today is easy... You can make your "style" and dont worry about the future and live the life to the fullest. In the days of now humanity have many crisis, between them are lust. Lust is about the desire of have many sexual activity and dont make rules... Today more than half of humanity have the "sin" of lust. People want what is easy without commitement, rules, exclusivity, and loose the sense what is marriage.
What is the cause of this? Is very simple... people are selfish, dont know what they want from future, for them future doesnt matter.
But why lust is considerate for example for religions a sin? Is simple, because sex is more complex what people think. Sex is for reproduction, love, connection, intimany and identity. For example for people who are swigger, they do sex with everyone, so they loose intimacy and dont have respect for what their sex "means". Is confuse, and many people think that for example, people who are monogamous make drama... but is not because when people who are swigger make sex with many people even if this people dont have, feelings like afection, they create a "hole" in the person that they make sex. What is this hole? This hole is the intimacy, because intimacy is very important for build a relationship. If this person has many "friends", and if in a day she finds one special person is very complicate because her intimacy is lost.
Humans can be more than "racional animals" and for monogamous men intimacy is very important because when they find the right person they became "one" and their connection is strong because dont exist "holes" between them.
Many guys go to the gym for have the "perfect body" but in fact what they think is make many friends as possible and sleep with them one day, week after week, night yes, night no, etc... One caracterists of lust is people who only think is have a beautiful body, make many sex as possible and dont care about values. Exist many guys that you saw and you think: these guy is gorgeous. Exist many guys gorgeous but what they want is sex, and use people like object that sleep with partner "A", next partner "C", next partner "B, again partner "A" etc and what is incredible is that some of them dont remember of names with people that they sleep... Strange irony.
Being sexaholic in some societies is a taboo because most people today think that is very normal use one person, and next other.

Unfair

If you miss one thing you want find her and stay closer... You miss because you feels good when you have this thing. For who wants make a pure alliance with someone look for find the perfect partner or perfect one or even soulmate.
Today people that have more oportunity for find someone loose their time in other things like "hookups". In ancient times for example didnt exist internet, tv, or open society (some countries) for try find the perfect one, of course, I am talking about homosexual men. Love is very rare in our planet because people are weak, selfish, cheat, lie, dont have values and are stupid. Find someone serious and real is dificult and if in your planes you want someone for share your life you must look for this guy because you feels that in somewhere is a part of your heart, your inside says to you that you miss "him".
Well, one of majority problems of society (world in general) is that most of people are conformist and "lazy". You sure that for example saw in internet profiles that says "easy going" , "boy next door", "hookups", "hot here", "distance 3o miles of..." etc. This is typical from people who are lazy, conformist that always prefers the easy things, because love is something that is very complex and is not a hot body or someone nice that make love exist. People are very materialist, most guys that go to gym, only are there because they want feels attractive for other guys and as well have more sex as possible. For monogamous and homosexual men this guys is just waste of time.
Exist people who have values and "miss" the other part of heart and look everyday for find the one, exist people that have lucky, other that dont... is hard.
Is unfair for example someone look for the "guy" entire life and in a day this one guy appears and you discovery that this "guy" is "easy going" that always prefer the easy things and that in the time that you look for him, he has casual relationships with their friends etc... People adult dont change because our personality is finished when we have 21, and like many say:" Is late, door is close"... If you look for someone many time and you now meet one guy that has a beautiful body but are easy going, well, you must say him:"go for hell bitch!", because for have the work, is sad someone waste hours and hours of our life for the end find one used guy that is very ordinary and lazy. Dont waste or accept guys that always prefer the easy things because this guys only want is f"ck someone and etc... Love is hard because is rare and one clue of true love is find someone that is too, looking for you and waiting you appears in his life. When for example you saw in the news people that are disapear you saw that the family goes to the news for tell people that miss and need find this person because is simple, they love this person, so they need her. Is just a example. If everyone were easy probably today you never read this.

Adult

Everything became mature, we born, we live and we die. Is Nature law no one can change that.
Every person is diferent because everyone has a special nature or personality.
Adult... for people, is some person that has some age or a mature personality. Today one person is considerate mature or adult with 21 but when this person has 18, is too considerate adult. Adult age is subjective because is diferent for culture of any nation.
Our personality, said some scientists begin when we are inside of our mother because is "the build of our nature". In our teenage our body change, we feel many emotions and is this time that our personality became more stronger. School or family are very important for help build our personality with some values.
Is when we have 21 that our body is "complete" and our adult personality is too complete and for example what our parents of family or friends teach us, now is values that our personality has. Exist people that have a good family that teach always the good values, respect others, fight for their objectives and more but some this people falls is opposite side, some of them, because of their friends. You can see one type of person if you look at her friends, because friends show others what type of people we are, what we identify.
Sex became more important we our teenage because is when is change and for example we can see in this what our nature tells us, (heterosexuality or homosexuality).
21 is important because is one year of our life that we choose away. 21 is important because is when for example our height stop etc... In this age we have complete our adult personality and we have the values that will make a orientation for our life. For monogamous homosexual men this is a important age because is when for example we want make alliance with someone and make a family. Exist two diferent ways: one is find someone for share our life other is the "fun" someone. For who choose the "fun" way maybe dont exist retourn and if someday you change your mind is late because life is short and for example for make a healthy family is need time for find the right partner, time for live together and time for make plans for have a children for example. Make a family is very complex and serious of course for who choose the "fun" way you can make a family, called "friendly family".
Of course life is short and we must pay attention what we choose and we want because can became one way without retourn. If everyone were "easy" or conformist maybe Christopher Columbus didnt find America or for example we dont have Internet because "is need so many work to do.." or the moon never saw the men etc...
Sometimes the easy way became more dificult and confused and we became lost. People who are adult choose their way and deal with consequences. Is the law of life we choose and receive the good or bad that our life has to offers you.

Sacrifice

All good things arent easy, for example, find a diemant, gold, build machines, science, perfection, and more... Arent easy because for have this things is need very work, very work to do these things.
Is like the true love, because find the true love is very hard and is need many work for find him. True love can be subjective or dont? What people want more? People exactley want (for who believes in love and wants build one relationship) is a partner that will enjoy the union and someone that is our side in long our life for suport us and share our life. So, I can say that people want the same thing, find someone for share their lifes and of course can be subjective but if we see, is almost the same thing. Humans are very complex and sometimes we see for example in the news terrible things that we ask: "how can people do these things?".
We choose soon our away, and we deal with our consequences of that choise, and for who wants build a family, have someone for share our lifes we must be objective, know what we want for us.
Search for a partner is not easy, of course if you are "boy next door" you can enjoy the speed dates, play with your dick on webcam and etc... this is easy... for find our partner we must look in every directions and be open for the world. This sacrifice is preserve our temple or sex, look for find these guy, have values, in other words, following the perfection.
In ancient times exist men that were very empty and ignorant, but in present that we live in one world that is connected, is more modern and know what is good or is bad, we see many young people do the same things that our grandfathers or grandmothers did. One word: Dah! Is possible that after we know the past, do the same mistakes? Truth is that humans arent perfect. Exist for example sites that detroy values, and teach treat people like objects and shit. But of course is these stupid people that falls so easy, they dont understand that what these people want is used you and get your money from you, nothing more. Exist good sites too, for serious people and if you want make a profile in the net you must look for sites that is special for make relationships.
If we are single men or woman we need preserve our temple because our sex or connection is very important and rare thing that we must treat like gold.
Of course many say that the love come to our door in maybe a day, but if you dont move, stay in same place you loose the oportunity of meet someone special. Maybe is someone looking for you... who knows, and, if these person finds you and see that you are "lazy" because you are conformist that always prefer the easy things, these person leave in exactley moment.
Sacrifice is hard and sometimes painful but if in the end you find what do you looking for you will see that was necessary and important.

Conservative or liberal

Conservative or liberal? Which is better... Our world are in constant change, sometimes values change too but other is important mantein. Conservative person wants preserve ancient or present values and possible never change her mind. A liberal person wants be a "open" person that always accept the change.
In aspect of relationships, today exist so many people who have liberal idea. Is good be liberal? have "open" relationships, "free sex", "dont make drama"?. For monogamous men, of course no, because sometimes so many freedom or dont establish rules can have consequences. For example, one decade of XX century that has this theme (liberal), the decade of 60's that everyone knows because was a decade of change and that be liberal was new. Of course I am talking about the hippies, that what they want were be free of politics, free of rule, free sex, or just be free. One clear consequece was that they, with ideas of be liberal they try drugs, free sex, fight with rules of society etc. They quicley saw that what they did was too much, and one consequece was that some of them die, suicide. Some of them die because they loose the sense of rules (of course many try drugs), the sense of values...of course is not all people who I am talking about but a huge a number. This just a example.
My point is that, exist things that, of course need change but before we want change we need see if the new ideal is more perfect than the other. Today many people or couples have open relationships, they have a partner but they sometimes choose other partner for have sex, of "vitual sex" in the webcam for example. Of course is not correct because if one person has a partner for be with, why they choose have other partners? I can say, fornication, sexaholic, etc... But one thing is clear, one person that do that of course dont really love her partner. Be conservative is good because some of conservative ideas have values and teach us became better people, liberal is too good but before we change our mind we must se if the new ideal is better than the before. One balance that is great, be moderate. For example some countries accept gay marriage, so, they are conservative but accept the diference, they became moderate conservative.

Fornication

Fornication, a ancient term that was used many centuries ago. Fornication is a term which typically refers to voluntary sexual intercourse between persons not married to each other. Fornication today is more present that in ancient world. Today almost people loose the sense of marriage and purity.
Purity for example in ancient cultures was very important and a marriage only happen if for example woman or man are pure, or before marriage they never make sex.
Fornication is for people that what they see, are sex and only sex.
In ancients times fornication was considerate a crime and was shameful for the family of this person. This, in my opinion, is nothing about religion but yes, with values and honor. People must have values and honor and in ancient cultures (of course that times were not perfect) honor was very important as well purity.
In our world exist millions of people and exist a little number that look for find the perfect partner or love. Fornication is in every part, because is easy find sex and people empty. The origin of the word derives from Latin. The word fornix means "an archway" or "vault" and it became a common euphemism for a brothel as prostitutes could be solicited in the vaults beneath Rome. More directly, fornicatio means "done in the archway"; thus it originally refered to prostitution. The first recorded use of the noun in its modern meaning was in 1303 AD.
People choose what they want, but in our days see that we have more ability for find people and create health relationship and people waste their time with "slaves" and "objects". Well we choose.

Preserve

Preserve. Preserve, today, in aspect of relationships, is forgotten. We live in one world that, carpediem is more present, so, people want live present day like the last day.
Is ok, and is good live every day like the last one, but, in some aspect we must see if we waste our time well. Today many people go to, open relationships, speed dates, have lovers and enjoy many partners as possible. For monogamous and homosexual men, find the right one stay more dificult find one serious partner. Is good live the present, but in aspect of love we must be realistic and choose one away. We choose live the present and dont care about the future or live the present and build the present thinking in the future.
In opinion of monogamous and homosexual men we must preserve our body or "temple" and wait for the one. Speed dates, friends that are like lovers, many sexual partners, all this can give more trouble because our feelings get, with time confuse and we waste our time with superficial things. We must look, live, enjoy our present , but when we do this we preserve or temple for one day in far present or in future share our life with our guy.

Values

When we are kids, our parents teach us what is good or bad. Education is a complex process because is subjective, and any person is diferent.
What is about, values? When we like very much one thing we preserve this thing and possible protect. Give value, to something, is like and have appreciation for that thing.
Values are very important because is a way of care and give attention to some things. Exist many types of values, values can be for objects or for people. For a man, values are very important because is what make diference of be human or animal. For example: One person very rich, that is billionaire, this person can have what she wants or desire because she can afford to buy what she wants, but if she has many things like for example a undread cars of top level, she can use one car any day... These person give values to these things? No, because she has so many cars that doenst matter if she choose brand "A" or brand "B", and if she loose one, for example in acident doenst matter... In other side, one normal person that has one or two cars, she gives values to these things, because for buy this cars were hard make money for have them, so she have careful and care about these cars.
This example was for show that values is important because, doenst matter have many things, but what matters is have one and give all attention and care about. When we have many things we loose the sense of values because we have so many that all objects, people seams the same and we cant see anymore what is important or not.
We give values to some thing, when we like or love so we have diferent attitude to things that we like or things that we dont.
Exist other type of values, spiritual values that is about love and the fight for find perfection, doenst matter religion, have religion or not what matters is we try find perfection and work hard for dont repeat our mistakes. People with values are peaceful, gentile, care about other, try make world better place.
For have a perfect or almost perfect balance of have a relationship we need have values, for our personality, work, or for love... Sex is perfect example, because if you believe in love or you loves someone, you only share your sex with the right person because she is diferent of other and she is unique, in other word...special!

Plan

Do you know what do you want for the future? Many guys dont, they dont know nothing about it. Future is a real enigma because we dont know if tomorow we are alive but we must look at the present and take a idea what is our future.

Relationship, is one word that scary many guys... dont worry, if this word are scary for you and when you prefer others words like "dating" or "fun" maybe in future when other guys used you and treat you like a object, the words that will be for you are:"you are f"cked".

A real man must have plans for the future because is what make us really men. Men who are single must work for find the one, and when I say work, is definitely work.

You must be objective for find the one and remember that not everyone has luck. In other posts I refer to some places that I will not say again... For example if you have a profile in net for singles and in aspect of search, if someone see your profile this:"casual, chat, relationship, friends" etc... this is from someone that in reality dont look for find the real partner, and, for him doenst matter if is casual, friend or relationship. Relationship must be in other level, high level because for make a serious relationship we must treat love like gold.

If you look every day for the one, and seperate friendship of true relationship and be a spiritual person maybe someone appears. Not everyone has lucky because find true love is a miracle in this world because many people focus their attention in superficial things, they are materialists, so, for find the love we must to have a balance between our "real" world and our spirituality. Doesnt matter religion, what matters is, our work for have better things or became better people, and perfection is very far, very far but is important we follow this away for find perfection.

Dont exist perfect people, but exist people that see a mistake and can change the way that lived before. Be objective will help you find what you are looking for... What is a men without dreams? a man without dreams are like animals because they do usual things like sleep, eat and mate but in animals this is their nature no one can change this, but humans have free will for try find perfection.

Age

Human life or other type of life has limit. Things arent imortal, so, we born, we live and we die. We cant do nothing about it... Life is precious and we need enjoy the time that we have.
Humans can live many years, but we dont know what our life give us in the future. Men who want make a alliance, know that time is precious and work a lot to find the one.
When we are kids, we life in a world of fantasy (some kids, cause exist real truth), we play, we dream, we love , but this love is more about friendship like the partner that we want play football, play with cars, bike, and other sports for example. Is one love of friendship that dont exist any sexual contact but a friendship like brothers.
Teenage, we see that our body change and our "real us" is in construction and we sometimes stay confuse about ourselfls and the the world outside. Is in teenage that our sexual orientation is more visible because is when we start to feel attraction for someone.
In adult life maybe for 21 to 50 is a important period of our lifes because what we "catch" from teenager like do the right things, respect other, try work for be a good person, have responsebility, know the bad things and what hurt us... all things. Is in our adult life that we must choose a away, choose a "map" and follow this away and find or build our destiny. Everyone is diferent and this "map" is subjective because anyone do what wants and have free will to choose.
For homosexual adult men of 21 to 40, this is special period to make a family and stablish a serious relationship like find the real one, make plans for the future and maybe adopt some childreen and give the love of parents. This is extremly dificult because we live in a world that families are "extintion". Many homosexual men are superficial, and dont know nothing about them. Some of this men never grow up, and stay in physiological teenager that what they want is only friendship based in sex. Man, and special homosexual men exist in every part of world and is hard find some serious guy that arent in closet, are monogamous, loyal and treat love like gold. One of problems that we have in our world and make more harder find someone serious, is the problem sexaholic. People that focus their attention in images like porno movies, speed dates, treat people like objects, use friends to satisfy primary instint and say in next moment "bye". But in other side, in a little number exist men that want more that simple contact, men that want stablish a real connection and belong to someone else, so, they hard to find this one for share their lifes. For make a real family in this period, 21 to 50 because is when we are younger and for example for couples who want have kids, this period is very important.
Next and last, is when we are old... I dont know nothing about it yet... but I hope someday know what is. I think is a time that we look to our past and we want feel that what we maked was good and have proud of do that, so we can say that was a bless live and do things that we have many proud.
We arent imortal like I say, enjoy every minute of our life is precious, but when I say enjoy every minute is not make many things as possible, but give them the real value and choose the most important for us.

Nudity

Our body is a treasure, beauty and very special. Everyone has sex, male or female and can be homosexual or heterosexual doenst matter...
Sex is part of us for transmit affection for other person or for identify us. Today people know the human body but in centuries ago, nudity was shameful. In some cultures, for example women hide her face and your body for preserve for her partners. Other cultures in Africa nudity for them are normal and they live without problems with their nudity, of course, I am talking in people that lives far from civilization...
In my opinion I think is important preserve or body, because is personal and in real world exist people that have dirty thoughts and look at someone and only think that want make sex with that person, sure, I am talking in sexaholics that compare people to objects... Is not necessary hide our face like some women in some cultures, for preserve our body.
Our genitals must be hide because is very personal and only have acess to our intimacy the person who we must share our lifes. In for example pornografy, actors that do that, they show their body to everyone and use their body like a objects and if they want build a relationship for example, the partner dont enjoy the pleasure of be the only one because if his partner make sex with everyone, what he have is too share for other men and he have a partner used many times... and is not the only pornografy actors but is too people who are swigger or have many partners. In general this people cant make serious relationships because they share their sex to everyone and everyone has acess to their intimacy so, they loose the intimacy and the private connection that sex gives.
Man body is very beautiful, and is very complex understand the importance of sex, because sex has many values, love, religion, pleasure, contact, share, reproduction and other.
We arent objects, we are human and for example animals when they do love, they dont treat the partner like a object...well some of them, in case of black widow, sometimes female eat the male but I think he die because the objective of his life is only do that, but when they mate you dont see they call bad names, make ridiculous scenes, use partner like a object...
Exist many beautiful man and people who are looking for the serious partner and when we see someone that are very attractive, in a man for example, and next moment you see that he have a great body but his thoughts are completly diferent of yours. ..So, is important find the balance for find our partner and dont loose time.

Marriage

Marriage is a serious thing... Who gives this step, found the love and the perfect partner for have one serious relationship. Marriage in ancient times was considerate pure and a union that finished only with death. In ancient times marriages was only recognize between a man and a woman and I ask was? For example in ancient Greece homosexuality was present and rich men date with young males and was considerate normal at the time. In Egypt too homosexuality was present, for example Khnumhotep and Niankhkhnum were ancient Egyptian royal servants. They shared the title of Overseer of the Manicurists in the Palace of King Niuserre during the Fifth Dynasty of Egyptian pharaohs, circa 2400 B.C., and are listed as "royal confidants" in their joint tomb. They are speculated to be the first recorded same-sex couple in history.

In modern days same sex marriage in some places of the world are recognize others no... Unfornatelly in California same sex marriage was banned because of church and ignorant ideas... Doesnt matter if are heterosexuals or homosexuals, love is a bless from nature and God.

When two creature find the love and feel that want build a rare connection and share their lifes, this gift is in reality a bless from God because they want establish one connection for entire life and became one.

Build a relationship is very serious and our "temple" must be clean for we share our soul.

I think is not need a document that says "you are married" ... and I think too, that is right two people of same sex have the right to marry because they want tell society that they are together, so, be gay or dont is a right for everyone.

Imagine your life with your partner, share your life with him, make sports, go museums, gyms, travel, make love, make plans for the future... what great thing.

We must remember that love is a gift and is one thing that we must work to get it and honor. For those who found love they know that what they have is one thing that will disapear only when they die. Is important too dont loose time with superficial things, speed dates, and more because life is a treasure that pass quickey.

Sexaholic

One person is sexaholic if is addited to sex and cant control his behavior... Like you read before, sex is one thing that is very personal because is our way for transmit affection, devotion and love so when people loose control about their instints they destroy the ability for have a heath relationship and become a sexaholic.
In society this is a taboo because no one talk about it, but is a reality that are now more present and this can have serious consequeces like one alcolic person.
I make one search about syntoms who maybe are sexaholic. 10 indications: 1ª-You have sex with more than one person a month. 2ª-You masturbate frequently 15 times a week. 3ª-You turn sexual partners into objects instead of "making love" with them. 4ª-You have more than 10 XXX videos or magazines at home. 5ª-You have anonymous sex. 6ª-You "cruise," but may call it 'people watching....' 7ª- You have sex in dangerous places. 8ª-You continually pursue "great sex." 9ª-You think about and/or talk about sex a lot. 10ª-You think that you may be a sexaholic.
Here some examples that I search. Society must have look at this and see that is a reality and change the behavior... Exist societies of anymous people who are sexaholic that can help people to recover. One serious consequence that is easy to see is for example, in the case of heterosexuals couples, the man, dont are loyal to his wife and sleep with other women. The same are the case of homosexuals...

One

One, is that we only need... one partner, one human, one creature, one love. For build a relationship, we only need a partner. Is one for one. Our "temple" is rare and only who catch our heart can get in. Who are monogamous, want someone too monogamous and take very serious monogamy and fidelity.
In our times people almost loose the sense of monogamy and this can result in serious consequences. Exist people who pay many money for have a moments with quick pleasure and they do sex. Is almost impossible people make sex without feelings because sex is something that is very personal and have many value. If someone do sex without feelings in reality, I ask: you are human? or a machine? Many guys are like machines because they do sex without feelings, only for pleasure... Sex is our treasure and is something that is very personal because is our way for transmit our connection for other human. In our world sex, is in every part and special younger men start to fall in tentations. Consequences of course is pain because after the pleasure finished came the facts and people think that was so stupid do that, special with some person that they dont love. Sex gives many pleasure, of course, but is important be with someone that we feel that this person belongs to us. Society are in storm that calls "mecanic behavior" because most people do things without think about it. One example is: guys that have great bodies but only want speed dates like make sex with some person or other.
They do sex like eat a apple, and treat people like objects. Doenst matter for them if was X or Y, is just sex... One reason that monogamy is correct is because for example when two guys do love they are in contact 100 per cent because they feel their connection equal. If are, three guys making sex in reality the pleasure that they feel not are equal and their pleasure are 33.3333... per cent because "A" partner focus attention in "B" partner, "B" partner focus his attention in "C" and "C" partner focus his attention in "B" so "A" dont have equal pleasure. More partners, less equal pleasure. For have the equal pleasure, is one for one, 100% for 100%.
Sex is really hard understant and very complex. Man is beautiful creature and Man must be ambitions, have objectives, work for find perfection.
Even animals with their instints they can love and they do sex, but they do sex with honor... and they dont lie, use, like a object. Monogamous guys have many work to do, because find someone too monogamous, true person. loyal, and are really human and not like one machine is like find a diemant. When One couple of homosexuals do love they feel that their "temples" are connected and they enjoy the 100% of love.

Places

Exist many places that people meet other people, but depends what you looking for... For us, homosexual men, monogamous, serious we need be careful with some places that we look for find our soulmate.
One of majority places that many men look for find the mister right is the Internet. The Internet have many things and maybe is a good place for try find our guy but exist sites that arent good for us. You saw a site that have great men but when you look closer you see that have many nudity and probably find the right guy there is zero per cent of probablility because is not good stay in sites that you see profile with photos that look disgusting like dicks, ridiculous photos, etc... But exist site serious that we can try find our guy, are sites that dont permit photos with nudity and maybe help you find the right one.
If you work, when you work maybe exist some interesting people around you that maybe you feels attracted, so with professional way you can know diferent people and maybe some day the right one appears and catch your heart. Exist too, other places like gyms that maybe you can know someone, coffee house, when you run or walk in parks, museum, cinema, travels, serious bars. General nightclubs not are good for find the one serious guy because many of this places are for people that only want one night of sex, so they go there to find one guy and make sex and bye.
Our soulmate can exist in any part of world, so we need look for him in many places as possible, like Internet with serious sites for find relationships, our place of work but of course we must be professional and seperate work from personal life, gyms, walk in street, travels, serious bars, museum etc...
We must dont forget that if we know one guy in Internet, travel or other place we must investigate this guy. One of greatest places for know past of someone or know if that person speaks the truth is look in Internet with the name of that person, word keys, in sites that are for sex, like speed dates. Many guys are look angels but when we see his past they transform in "shit" and we see that we loose our time with someone else that only want is a f"ck". We need be objective for find the right one. Our soulmate can live far, in other part of world, near of us...We dont know we must wait and look.

Perfect union

Value, look for guys who have a beauty, strongs bodies and have beautiful values, serious, honest, true men... Man is a complex creature. Who are a homosexual guy, look for the mister right you see how dificult is find him. What is union? Union are in case of homosexual guys, two guys that feels a strong attraction and want share their lifes, bodies, friendship, relationship, and make a alliance.

Choose the right guy is very dificult and is need work a lot for find him. If you dont want work for find him, of course, you can enjoy the speed dates or parties that people f"ck anyone. Sex is one of most easy things in our world. Sex is in every part music, movies, publicity, etc... Is so easy became a superficial person, a person that have what she wants... But she have? You saw for example, when are some guys that have great bodies and have many guys around them. They can have all sex that they want but they are happy?

Of course many will say that is the dream of any men, have multiple great boyfriends and choose one any time. Happiness is subjective. But in fact they are a superficial guys that do things that are primary: sex, sleep, eat etc... They are like animals or "zombies" because the diference of animal/human is that animals have primary instints, humans have primary instints but control their instints. Be ambitious is one of greatest human qualities because first we dream what we want and next we work to get it. I am critic, and my objective is no judge no one is just say what to me is important. Dont forget that this blog is one for one; Man for man.

In my opinion we can choose, be human/animal or became human in sense that we control and have ambitious for have what we want. No one is perfect and sometimes our superficial instints speak loud, but is important is look ours mistakes and dont make them again.

For have a perfect balance in our guy, is important that he are with the body that we feels attracted and his emotional thoughts are similary to ours.

We should not envolve with guys that are only half ours, we must find the balance. Is not good stay with some guy that we not feel attrated but in emotional way we like him or we think that he is cute. Is not too, good stay with one guy that have a great body but have diferent way of live his life. Is important have two things.

For those who finally found their guys and want a serious monogamous relationship they make a alliance and became one couple connected. Have our guy we feel that he is part of us like our family, is one connection that we must honor. One sign of true love is falling in love in first contact eyes, love in first view. Because the elements feels attacted and feels excited. But not always is true, any man have a diferent way of give his love but he must give. When the lucky couple of homosexual guys are together, they do love with their penis... male alpha try estimulate male beta with strong and gentile moviments to his penis. When two guys, do penis with penis is important find the right position for make sex. Sometimes male beta come more faster because male alpha increase his moviments and with hugs, kisses, male beta come more quickley. If you are a luck guy and have a serious partner in your side enjoy his company and the gift of love.

Semen

All men have semen. Is one part f us. Semen can be for reproduction and for love. Heterosexual people have more points than homosexuals, because they can choose what person want and with that person create other be. Homosexuals no, because Nature denied. In our world exist one reality, the increase of population and Nature has a balance for maintain the normal way. Blood is not really important because homosexual’s guys can adopt and care children and give them the true love of parents. Semen in ancient times was considerate with many value because was symbol of love and reproduction. Sometimes Nature denied too that heterosexual’s couples have children. Is the Nature that gives the carts. Reproduction is Nature who decides who is created or no. Are variables that Nature attributes. Homosexual’s guys cannot make reproduction like heterosexuals but they can adopt and give love for other children that need a family. When a man love his partner and the partner loves him they can enjoy the gift of love and when they do love one part of them stay together, they ejaculate and establish one connection that semen gives. Semen has value because is part of us and we must share only the guy who we love.

good guy or bad guy

Find the guy that we want is very hard and sometimes we can do mistakes... How complex is relationships and how complex is anyone.
Look every day we see so many guys but we must see if this person is good for us and see if we can see any future for make a relationship with that person. If we are man monogamous we must look for one guy who is monogamous and is too looking for us. True love is very hard find because is extreme value and important thing and find a guy who love us is like a miracle. Exist many men that have friends but in reality they are lovers and not "just friends" and many men use term "fun" for say sex and they think that f'ck a friend or other doenst matter so this guys are not monogamous and singles if is the case. True singles are the guys who dont have any relations with others guys and dont have sexual activity... Many men say that are single but if they date in same time and have sexual partners they in true are swigger. When we see one guy that are interest we must know about him and see if he is single, if is homosexual, what he looking for, to see if we are same level and see what he want for the future like have kids or dont have kids...
For those who look every day for the right one we see many guys for example in sites for find gay love and we must see with careful if is the guy that we want or no. I am talking about gay guys who are monogamous. Example you saw profile with one guy that you every wants, he have a great body, one guy that is like a angel, so you stay quick in love for him but with more details you see... looking casual date. The guy that you saw is not for you because if you want a serious relationship, are monogamous and want build a family unfornatelly this guy is not for you.
Our guy must be beautiful inside and outside, because if not we stay with one guy that think in diferent way. We need find one guy that is our nature, someone who wants similiaries plans for the future like we want, someone who is too single, looking for us and we trying find they. Is very complex, and some guys quit or dont care about find the true love or dont want explore deep feelings and share their lifes.
For those who have a relationship in beginnig we must make a "test" to our guy. See his past, what others say about his personality, how many guys he date in past etc... One test that you can do is: Tell him to call a exactly hour, minutes, to say to you that he loves you... If he calls very later, far from this hour or forget call to you is maybe because he dont really loves you because when we love someone we always count the hour or minutes, seconds to see this person, so is vey strange if the guy who loves us forget call us to say "I love you". Of course can exist for example, problems with phones that is understand. Other test to see if this guy is good for us and love us is for example see if he mastrubate. If you catch you boyfriend mastrubate is because he dont loves you and dont have pleasure sexual with you. Mastrubation in a relationship is no sense because if we have other person to be the object of love, desire, sexual partner we dont need make mastrubation because if we do this we are traitors not in our body but in our thoughts. For love one guy we must be entire and give him our body and our thoughts.
Love is gift, is because is very hard find it. For those who have the perfect one they know how extraordinary is have someone that complete us. For those who want find true love, we must look for him and soon or later maybe he arrive in our door.

Single men

Exist many men single and exist many reasons too. Create good, health, serious relationships is very complex. Men who are monogamous try look for one partner serious, loyal, beautiful, strong... is a dream of any men find the perfect one.

To find the perfect one we must look for him and to do this we must work a lot our search. Most part of men wants stay single because they are superficial people and dont care about making or share their lifes. They only want have a boyfriend and after use him, leave and look for others sexual partners. Exist many rare monogamous men singles and find one like this is like find the diemant or gold. Good, exist people who work a lot to find the right one and are smart and dont fall in superficial instints.

First we must make a idea what man we want and next see what tools we need to look for him. To look for the guy of our hearts we must be objective and every day work a lot.

Many men when are with desire for have contact or wants make sex, they have speed dates and when this happen we loose more time and our "temple" stay dirty. Speed dates are a illusion and people who make this with time they loose the pure "temple" and the chance for have one serious partner, and family.

We are part of Nature of course we are... In animals when they want relations they do any what they want, but they are animals and have superficial instints like make sex and make this they dont out hurt in their feelings. Even animals can love behind their superficial instints but humans can love with more deep feelings.

Everyone has superficial or primary instints like sleep, eat and make sex. But if a man is single and is monogamous how he put free or fight with this instints to preserve his "temple"? Well many single monogamous men make mastrubation. When we are with a strong desire for have conection we, homosexual men monogamous, we can touch our body and imagine our future partner. We do this to preserve our "temple" because is very important. When I say mastrubation is only clean do this, if what estimulate us is the "guy" who we make and have the idea what he is like. If you are gay single men and do mastrubation when you see porn, in your thoughts the picture of your guy stay confuse and your "temple" is not clean anymore.

Is important preserve our "temple" clean, inside and outside. We can touch our body, is our, and mantein "temple" clean and waiting for the guy who will enjoy the secrets that we have and get the strong love that we want give.

Touch our body, maybe many times a day is normal and is good for gay singles to mantein their "temples" clean and imagine day after day the guy who will appears in our lifes... So, for put out our superficial instints we can do this with a "guy" who we build and preserve our "gold" that is our sex for who we love.

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The dream

Try listen your heart and see what he tells you. Silence can show us what guy is good for us. To find the perfect guy , in my opinion , we must hear our heart and think about it.
Sometimes dreams can show to us what guy our heart wants. If he is tall, muscular guy, short, long hair, eye color, brown etc... For those who want find the perfect guy, we must hear our heart and "build" the guy that we want. Dreams sometimes help this when you have deep dreams that everything seams real.
If in your dream some guy close to you and you feels a huge atraction for him, try look at details that your dream show. What he like, what is eye color, hair, if is muscle or not, what feelings he show to you, if is shy, strong, sweet and more. This details is your nature, the nature your heart and of your genes.
I am not say about actors or models that you saw, but I am refer to a guy who is "build" for you in your deep soul, your nature. When the construct of this guy is complete you have the step number one that is: what guy I am looking for.
Dreams or our deep thougts are the nature that we have and this nature that we have give us signs for look for elements that complete us. Dont forget that we are nature, everything that exist in earth is conected and have elements that are very similaries.
If look for example, you were study in the school the element of periodic table you see that exist elements that are homo, hetero, and what reaction have anyone. This elements can have a reaction for positive or negative. This are the perfect example for find the perfect guy.
Everyone has a unique nature. When you "build" the idea of perfect guy for you, you can start to look and have a idea what you looking for.
I have my "guy" "build" the guy that I want and I am looking for him, thats is hard thing to do, but I have hope and I am happy look for him because I know what he is like and the same time that I look for him I can explore my feelings and enjoy my "deep me".
One of greatest problems thats why is very hard find the perfect guy is because we must see if we are in harmony and if we want the same thing. If you find the guy thats you maybe think thats the one, try know more about him and see if your nature is similary, if not is waste of time and soon or later you will finished the relationship.
Well, if you dont ever have a deep dream that a strange man that you dont know and maybe he are the guy that you want, now is time for have this dream a see what "your guy" wants, he is like, and see your deep nature.

Time

Time. Time never stop. We live in the world that no one can understand. Today I will talk about how important is time and life of anyone.
Love is one of the most important things in our Universe, love to exist everyone should look, work for find it, wait for the exact moment. Love must be create. We in our Universe are nothing, everyting that exist today in future will die. Universe is really very strange, we born and life pass for us so quicly. We live in a beautiful earth and we are a inteligence and beautiful specie. In any living creature we are the most inteligence and we can explore or try explore what means everyting and why we are here. Exist people that live years and years and die and in reality they didn´t feel or explore and enjoy the nature of love.
We have the ability for feel and enjoy the true love. True love is not easy, and sex is not love like many guys think. You can have sex with some person, but is not love because your soul is empty and is not clean.
In the future everyting that we know will be disapear, everyting die, nothing survive so why doesnt people think and enjoy the gift of love? Love for me and for some, is conection, is devotion, is rare, is beautiful, is pure, is part of us, is the essence of our lifes.
I am a young guy that still confuse why so many people and special guys waste their time with superficial things. Love is very hard to find of course is, but why people still empty of feelings and dont respect their bodies? If many guys try to work and look for the mister right probably you now are in home with your partner kiss him, hug him, and enjoy the essence of life. Build a relationship is so hard because exist so many people empty, superficial (when I say superficial is people who are lazy for look, guys that make sex with a friends and bye...) so many people who are disgusting because everyone was f"cked and more things. To be human you must have deep feelings because humans are gentile, think, respect, love, do the right thing and have honor. Superficial people arent humans in my opinion because they think like animals, things that is so absurd. "What guy I fuck?", "you have a big cock", "I cant hold on a month without sex", "I am the easy guy" "I dont like guys who do drama" etc...
Man is a beautiful creature, and should look for perfection because we have a ability for build ideas that make us confortable.
Before I say that I dont see porn. I dont see porn because is waste of time and my soul can stay dirty and not clean. Sex is a gift for share and is a treasure because, well you see that porn industry can win millions of dollares using people that are more like with animals. Even animals do sex for reprodution and for love. Why in nature some animals fight? Is because for have the perfect partner we must have honor. Honor is very important for love because the guy you catch will enjoy your "temple" and build a rare conection that is love.
I feel so bad when I see that many guys watch porn or do stupid films for show to others. They are destroy their clean soul and their temple.
So beautiful men that waste their time with ilusion, destroy the capacity for one day have a true family and find the perfect guy and using their body for satisfy their superficial instints.
If you watch porn or do dirty films, some day you will find the guy who are the owner of your heart and you will loose him because you are so busy with superficial instints, that this guy appears in your life and in exact moment disapear and you have no time for know the true love.
This started in our teenage, when we are curious and is normal look for this and explore our sexuality but when you have more than 18 years old your personality is ready and what you catch from teenage you will be in your adult life.
Life is short and you probably think that I am old for say this, but I am younger... Love is rare like diemants. We have previlege for enjoy the pure love and see so many men without feelings and respect is horrible I say... because you are waste the oportunity for know and enjoy your life with feelings that others species cannot try. In our world exist so rare men who honor his body and look a entire life for find the mistery of essense of love.
I dont watch porn and dont give my money for ilusion, and people that dont use their brain but think what they have between legs. One word for this: fornication.
Well here some of my opinions I hope that you enjoy and think about it.

Touch

Exist times that we feel more excited and if we have the perfect man near of us we want feel and enjoy the touch, kiss, hugs and love. For those who have luck, they feel that they can transmit love for the partner and build deep feelings.

Deep feelings for most part of men, is not important and they think that the love is just make sex, sex for them is love. Of course men who want find the perfect guy dont agree with this because sex is only really love if when we do this we really love the person that we do. Touch the person who we love is really a dream and excited thing. Our penis is really very sensible and when we love one person the penis stay bigger and is a sign that we are ready for feel the touch of our partner and feel the love.

Is really sad when we think that most part of men are very selfish, superficial person, men who are dishonest. I am talking in humans in general. Our specie could be the perfect life that exist in earth but this is not truth. Humans have two polos, good and evil. When I say evil I am refer that humans can be more cruel than animals because animals dont have the inteligence or the oportunity for do the right thing, in other side, humans with inteligence and oportunity for know what is the right thing, they choose the worst side. But this is for your thought...

Sometimes men who have the perfect guy can stay in the room and enjoy the love, desire, devotion and contact. When we really are very sensible the pleasure is quick because we are both excited and with friction of penis the semen came more quicky.

For men who find the perfect guy they are proud and they really want transmit love and show to others that they are perfect for each other and say to others that be homosexual is just normal like be heterosexual because they are together and build a conection that no one can destroy. Exist many guys that are in closet, when i say the closet I am refer to guys that pretend be straight, but in reality they are gay. They are in fact waste their time because they dont look for the perfect guy but are with some woman that they dont desire and lie for themselves. In some countries homosexuality is really a taboo, but if you dont want say that you are gay, you dont need pretend that you are straight. You can stay in closet but dont pretend that you are straight because if not the mister right can appears in your life and leave in exact moment because no one wants guys who are dishonest. You must be proud to be a homosexual guy, is your nature. Sometimes for those who are look for the perfect guy, in the street for example we look at some guy and we can identifie if he is gay or not. Well sometimes we can wrong because special bisexual guys is really hard identifie.

For desire a person, the eyes, can show who he is and what he want from us. If is a fixed look, this person desire us very. Sometimes some guy pass near of us and if he smells good and be the who we maybe want we in this instant moment we feel excited and our penis stay bigger.

Touch is really good for mantein a good relationship, when a couple make sex without touch is because they really dont love each other and have a mecanic behavior...

Touch your partner if you are a luck guy and enjoy, the bit of his heart that is really good thing for feel. Well, some of my english is not correct like I say before but I hope that you understant what I say.

Temple

No, im not religious. I dont believe in religion but I believe in God in diferent way. For me Nature is voice of God. We must see the reality like she is, not try invent or make a escuse to justify our acts.

Now I will talk about what means for me and maybe other people the meaning of "temple". This "temple" is our body. I refer our body as "temple" because any human been have soul. Sex is not only for reprodution, pleasure but is too for love, importance for other been, desire, devotion, and our Nature.

Sex is a way for feel other human and sometimes people have sex for satisfy primitive feelings.

We have a treasure that is our sex, anyone do what wants, is your body... but for me is more than a body... is a way for transmit my love, desire and honest feelings.

Many men are lazy for look for true love, they waste their time with dirty movies, sex with friends that in a day, if he find someone that he loves he will loose that person because he dont try look for a relationship but used his time for f"ck friends and no one wants used things, things that was f"cked in this term. Thats my opinion I guess...

For who wants find true love and make a serious relationship, this is very complicated. Exist many sites that help find someone but is very hard, and other sites that is just a ilusion.

Preserve our body with "clean" thoughts is really a good way that will help you find someone in future maybe. I love man body, a really do but I will not waste my time see dirty movies that is not about love but is about fornication. Imagine if in this movies was your brother, mother, father with this behavior? Make sex like a animal without feelings. Maybe you turn off the Tv.

Sex is a complicated thing because is our way for have contact and build relationships, so preserve is very important, like a temple that must clean and only the man who we love can get in. No one is perfect but if you every day look for this person and restrict you intimancy you will probably find the right one.

In other aspect that I dont appreciate people that make sex for everyone is that this people in majority dont have deep feelings, have only instints... in heat. So this people are maybe sexaholic.

We dont live forever, and for those who want build a relationship is important turn off the Tv, and look every day for the right one.

Our Nature

Every man or woman is diferent, our hands, blood, genes tells this to us. Everyone has a unique Nature. Since a man born, if he is homosexual person, he knew that he feels atracted by other men and he think that is normal and happy like everyone.
Exist many type of person and of course diferent homosexual men. Some guys are only homosexuals, others are bisexuals, others heterosexuals and more. When we feel atracted or in love is good know the Nature of other person. If you are homosexual you maybe should looking for a man who is too homosexual because if he is bisexual maybe you and him are not in balance. Example, imagine that you have a partner that is bisexual and you and him are in park or other public place and near you, he and you saw a beautiful woman. You sure saw, that your partner look at her and feel desire for her. Is just a example... You maybe are with a little jealous because you feel that your partner is not entire with you. You have only a half atracttion from him, because he are bisexual person. Of course exist cases and cases but imagine if you are too bisexual, so you are now in balance with him because behind your partner appreciatte women, you to appreciatte them. So here a balance between you and him.
Is important in my opinion exist balance, you can love bisexual person in spite of you arent bisexual and is possible sure but to have a serious relationship balance is very important, atracttion, desire, love, devotion and Nature. If you are a homosexual guy and have a partner that is bisexual, in reality you have 50% of him and other part are for opposite sex. What I am talking is about desire not traitors. You can love a bisexual and are very happy with him sure, but you dont have the entire desire from him, have only half.
Explore more this question, exist people who are monogamous, are swigger that is a horrible term for me and disgusting thing because in my opinion and yours maybe, our body should be preserve and have respect for our "temple" and this types is important too have balance. If you are monogamous you should maybe looking for someone that is too monogamous person, because if you find someone that is swigger you maybe can sufer and is disapoited for you.
In next posts, I will explain more what means our "temple" and I can say that we have a thing that have a many value, and this value is our sex. Why the industry of porn have so much money? Why the industry of sex have so much money? because our body have a treasure, and someone who work or want some of this, pay thousand of dollares for have a ilusition, quick pleasure and people that dont think with a brain but think with that have between legs.
Here exist my opinions, of course you can be critic and think what you want. To have balance we must looking for someone that is in harmony with us and this is the most hard thing to find.