Showing posts with label Sexaholic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sexaholic. Show all posts

5.07.2009

Fornication

Fornication, a ancient term that was used many centuries ago. Fornication is a term which typically refers to voluntary sexual intercourse between persons not married to each other. Fornication today is more present that in ancient world. Today almost people loose the sense of marriage and purity.
Purity for example in ancient cultures was very important and a marriage only happen if for example woman or man are pure, or before marriage they never make sex.
Fornication is for people that what they see, are sex and only sex.
In ancients times fornication was considerate a crime and was shameful for the family of this person. This, in my opinion, is nothing about religion but yes, with values and honor. People must have values and honor and in ancient cultures (of course that times were not perfect) honor was very important as well purity.
In our world exist millions of people and exist a little number that look for find the perfect partner or love. Fornication is in every part, because is easy find sex and people empty. The origin of the word derives from Latin. The word fornix means "an archway" or "vault" and it became a common euphemism for a brothel as prostitutes could be solicited in the vaults beneath Rome. More directly, fornicatio means "done in the archway"; thus it originally refered to prostitution. The first recorded use of the noun in its modern meaning was in 1303 AD.
People choose what they want, but in our days see that we have more ability for find people and create health relationship and people waste their time with "slaves" and "objects". Well we choose.

3.18.2009

Sexaholic

One person is sexaholic if is addited to sex and cant control his behavior... Like you read before, sex is one thing that is very personal because is our way for transmit affection, devotion and love so when people loose control about their instints they destroy the ability for have a heath relationship and become a sexaholic.
In society this is a taboo because no one talk about it, but is a reality that are now more present and this can have serious consequeces like one alcolic person.
I make one search about syntoms who maybe are sexaholic. 10 indications: 1ª-You have sex with more than one person a month. 2ª-You masturbate frequently 15 times a week. 3ª-You turn sexual partners into objects instead of "making love" with them. 4ª-You have more than 10 XXX videos or magazines at home. 5ª-You have anonymous sex. 6ª-You "cruise," but may call it 'people watching....' 7ª- You have sex in dangerous places. 8ª-You continually pursue "great sex." 9ª-You think about and/or talk about sex a lot. 10ª-You think that you may be a sexaholic.
Here some examples that I search. Society must have look at this and see that is a reality and change the behavior... Exist societies of anymous people who are sexaholic that can help people to recover. One serious consequence that is easy to see is for example, in the case of heterosexuals couples, the man, dont are loyal to his wife and sleep with other women. The same are the case of homosexuals...