Preserve

Preserve. Preserve, today, in aspect of relationships, is forgotten. We live in one world that, carpediem is more present, so, people want live present day like the last day.
Is ok, and is good live every day like the last one, but, in some aspect we must see if we waste our time well. Today many people go to, open relationships, speed dates, have lovers and enjoy many partners as possible. For monogamous and homosexual men, find the right one stay more dificult find one serious partner. Is good live the present, but in aspect of love we must be realistic and choose one away. We choose live the present and dont care about the future or live the present and build the present thinking in the future.
In opinion of monogamous and homosexual men we must preserve our body or "temple" and wait for the one. Speed dates, friends that are like lovers, many sexual partners, all this can give more trouble because our feelings get, with time confuse and we waste our time with superficial things. We must look, live, enjoy our present , but when we do this we preserve or temple for one day in far present or in future share our life with our guy.

Values

When we are kids, our parents teach us what is good or bad. Education is a complex process because is subjective, and any person is diferent.
What is about, values? When we like very much one thing we preserve this thing and possible protect. Give value, to something, is like and have appreciation for that thing.
Values are very important because is a way of care and give attention to some things. Exist many types of values, values can be for objects or for people. For a man, values are very important because is what make diference of be human or animal. For example: One person very rich, that is billionaire, this person can have what she wants or desire because she can afford to buy what she wants, but if she has many things like for example a undread cars of top level, she can use one car any day... These person give values to these things? No, because she has so many cars that doenst matter if she choose brand "A" or brand "B", and if she loose one, for example in acident doenst matter... In other side, one normal person that has one or two cars, she gives values to these things, because for buy this cars were hard make money for have them, so she have careful and care about these cars.
This example was for show that values is important because, doenst matter have many things, but what matters is have one and give all attention and care about. When we have many things we loose the sense of values because we have so many that all objects, people seams the same and we cant see anymore what is important or not.
We give values to some thing, when we like or love so we have diferent attitude to things that we like or things that we dont.
Exist other type of values, spiritual values that is about love and the fight for find perfection, doenst matter religion, have religion or not what matters is we try find perfection and work hard for dont repeat our mistakes. People with values are peaceful, gentile, care about other, try make world better place.
For have a perfect or almost perfect balance of have a relationship we need have values, for our personality, work, or for love... Sex is perfect example, because if you believe in love or you loves someone, you only share your sex with the right person because she is diferent of other and she is unique, in other word...special!

Plan

Do you know what do you want for the future? Many guys dont, they dont know nothing about it. Future is a real enigma because we dont know if tomorow we are alive but we must look at the present and take a idea what is our future.

Relationship, is one word that scary many guys... dont worry, if this word are scary for you and when you prefer others words like "dating" or "fun" maybe in future when other guys used you and treat you like a object, the words that will be for you are:"you are f"cked".

A real man must have plans for the future because is what make us really men. Men who are single must work for find the one, and when I say work, is definitely work.

You must be objective for find the one and remember that not everyone has luck. In other posts I refer to some places that I will not say again... For example if you have a profile in net for singles and in aspect of search, if someone see your profile this:"casual, chat, relationship, friends" etc... this is from someone that in reality dont look for find the real partner, and, for him doenst matter if is casual, friend or relationship. Relationship must be in other level, high level because for make a serious relationship we must treat love like gold.

If you look every day for the one, and seperate friendship of true relationship and be a spiritual person maybe someone appears. Not everyone has lucky because find true love is a miracle in this world because many people focus their attention in superficial things, they are materialists, so, for find the love we must to have a balance between our "real" world and our spirituality. Doesnt matter religion, what matters is, our work for have better things or became better people, and perfection is very far, very far but is important we follow this away for find perfection.

Dont exist perfect people, but exist people that see a mistake and can change the way that lived before. Be objective will help you find what you are looking for... What is a men without dreams? a man without dreams are like animals because they do usual things like sleep, eat and mate but in animals this is their nature no one can change this, but humans have free will for try find perfection.

Age

Human life or other type of life has limit. Things arent imortal, so, we born, we live and we die. We cant do nothing about it... Life is precious and we need enjoy the time that we have.
Humans can live many years, but we dont know what our life give us in the future. Men who want make a alliance, know that time is precious and work a lot to find the one.
When we are kids, we life in a world of fantasy (some kids, cause exist real truth), we play, we dream, we love , but this love is more about friendship like the partner that we want play football, play with cars, bike, and other sports for example. Is one love of friendship that dont exist any sexual contact but a friendship like brothers.
Teenage, we see that our body change and our "real us" is in construction and we sometimes stay confuse about ourselfls and the the world outside. Is in teenage that our sexual orientation is more visible because is when we start to feel attraction for someone.
In adult life maybe for 21 to 50 is a important period of our lifes because what we "catch" from teenager like do the right things, respect other, try work for be a good person, have responsebility, know the bad things and what hurt us... all things. Is in our adult life that we must choose a away, choose a "map" and follow this away and find or build our destiny. Everyone is diferent and this "map" is subjective because anyone do what wants and have free will to choose.
For homosexual adult men of 21 to 40, this is special period to make a family and stablish a serious relationship like find the real one, make plans for the future and maybe adopt some childreen and give the love of parents. This is extremly dificult because we live in a world that families are "extintion". Many homosexual men are superficial, and dont know nothing about them. Some of this men never grow up, and stay in physiological teenager that what they want is only friendship based in sex. Man, and special homosexual men exist in every part of world and is hard find some serious guy that arent in closet, are monogamous, loyal and treat love like gold. One of problems that we have in our world and make more harder find someone serious, is the problem sexaholic. People that focus their attention in images like porno movies, speed dates, treat people like objects, use friends to satisfy primary instint and say in next moment "bye". But in other side, in a little number exist men that want more that simple contact, men that want stablish a real connection and belong to someone else, so, they hard to find this one for share their lifes. For make a real family in this period, 21 to 50 because is when we are younger and for example for couples who want have kids, this period is very important.
Next and last, is when we are old... I dont know nothing about it yet... but I hope someday know what is. I think is a time that we look to our past and we want feel that what we maked was good and have proud of do that, so we can say that was a bless live and do things that we have many proud.
We arent imortal like I say, enjoy every minute of our life is precious, but when I say enjoy every minute is not make many things as possible, but give them the real value and choose the most important for us.