Do you know what do you want for the future? Many guys dont, they dont know nothing about it. Future is a real enigma because we dont know if tomorow we are alive but we must look at the present and take a idea what is our future.Relationship, is one word that scary many guys... dont worry, if this word are scary for you and when you prefer others words like "dating" or "fun" maybe in future when other guys used you and treat you like a object, the words that will be for you are:"you are f"cked".
A real man must have plans for the future because is what make us really men. Men who are single must work for find the one, and when I say work, is definitely work.
You must be objective for find the one and remember that not everyone has luck. In other posts I refer to some places that I will not say again... For example if you have a profile in net for singles and in aspect of search, if someone see your profile this:"casual, chat, relationship, friends" etc... this is from someone that in reality dont look for find the real partner, and, for him doenst matter if is casual, friend or relationship. Relationship must be in other level, high level because for make a serious relationship we must treat love like gold.
If you look every day for the one, and seperate friendship of true relationship and be a spiritual person maybe someone appears. Not everyone has lucky because find true love is a miracle in this world because many people focus their attention in superficial things, they are materialists, so, for find the love we must to have a balance between our "real" world and our spirituality. Doesnt matter religion, what matters is, our work for have better things or became better people, and perfection is very far, very far but is important we follow this away for find perfection.
Dont exist perfect people, but exist people that see a mistake and can change the way that lived before. Be objective will help you find what you are looking for... What is a men without dreams? a man without dreams are like animals because they do usual things like sleep, eat and mate but in animals this is their nature no one can change this, but humans have free will for try find perfection.
