Strong

Strong is something that is not easy destroy, damage, modify, weak and is something that has one force that is better than the other forces. Strong is one quality of love that is very necessary for build one relationship. Love is strong because is unconditional and stay we our lifes until we die. Today people want what is weak, fake, casual, easy to get and dont care about be a human because a true human has one thing that is: affection. Like I say before affection is one sign of be human. The diference of be a human or animal is that for humans is very easy get affection and build connections. You can say: but casual dates is not show affection? No. No because in casual dates what only happen is sex, and behind these people do sex when they have casual dates they in reality dont show affection because one caracterists of have affection is mantein or miss or want stay with that person and not make "mecanic contact" and leave. Affection is you like one thing and you feels that you need that thing close of you. So, casual dates people meet one person stay with her some time and leave.
For example in other post about the homosexuality and bible, homosexuality is not clear but what is clear is fornication. Is very simple understand why in bible God condenn fornication because people when do sex without feelings, affection, true desire, honor, they only have a simple contact that is use the body and leave.
This is easy understand and is not necessary read the bible for take conclution about affection and human contact. Other religions say the same, doesnt matter religion.
Strong is very necessary because in relationships when exist dificult times like for example, distance, death... if love is strong enough, then will survive and is one connection that is pure and human. Only what is strong has force, what is weak loose. Is not the "boy next door", "easy going", "casual" that has force enough for find love, because what has force enough is strong and is unconditional.

Homosexuality and Bible

Homosexuality and Bible. Is subjective theme. Is homosexuality wrong in Bible? Or is other thing?
Homosexuality in Bible is not very clear and understand this is subjective but one thing that people cant say is that God hate homosexuals because in bible says that God love anyone, so He cant hate but of course He make justice.
The Bible in reality is a book that is about the human condition, life and death. Is homosexuality wrong? Of course no. This is simple to see because every person is diferent and every person has a unique nature and you can see that other animals do the same "behaviour" so they cant change because was mother Nature who give the "carts". In Bible says that God create women and men for procreation. This correct of course, but that is for some people because not everyone is heterosexual so people sometimes forget that Bible says history of some people in diferent time and diferent "scenario". In Bible exist three homosexual couples.
Ruth and Naomi and David and jonathan for example. People sometimes dont want see the truth and invent things that arent there. See the context of these couples of course can be subjective for some people but for who read this, take the true idea that they were more than friends not "only friends". For example Sodom and Gomorrah. If one person read with attention will see that situation was not about homosexuality because when the men of that city want make relations with the "angels" Lot give their daughters for the men so they leave the "angels" in peace, after that the city was destroyed. Why was the city destroyed? Because people who lived in that city were mean, dont have values, dont have respect for others, so if the motive was homosexuality of course some people maybe survive... like children. The true motive is very clear: fornication. The men of that city saw beautiful "men" arrive and they quick saw that was good satisfy their instints.
In Bible says that one thing that make God angry is fornication because our "temple" must be clean and a man must have values, ambition for fight for his dreams, honor for be a man, someone true that dont lie. Some people confuse homosexuality and fornication. In Bible when talk about homosexuality sometimes together is fornication but this fornication is not be homosexual but yes, have many relations at the same time. So no one can exactley say that Bible say about homosexuality is wrong or is a sin. Bible says too that God dont really agree with polygamy and have mutiple partners. Understand better this, what "God" says is that life is precious and we must have moral, values, treat other well, dont be materislists and more. People must remember that the Bible is a book of human condition, special dificult times, weakness, strong, problems that any human has.

Attraction and feelings

Attraction and feelings are two diferent things. Attraction is you feel that you physical feels attracted for someone and your "nature" is what command your desire. Feelings is you like or hate or love someone and is what your "inside" tells you.
Some people put this things together, attraction and feelings. Today attraction has more value than feelings because most of people, for them, physical apparence is very important and they forget the balance between attraction and feelings. Is important exist a balance because exist many people that have great body but their "inside" is empty and only have their inside "images" that their instints want. Exist too many people that have a beautiful "inside" but their apparence is not exactley accept for the rules of be model or something like this.
For guys who want find a guy that will make them happy is important give value to this two things. Is important because many guys who only give the importance for attraction is simple: they only want sex and is important too, because many guys who only give the importance for feelings forget their true "nature" (be homosexual or heterosexual), is our nature that will show us what we feel attracted or in other words: our genes.
Average is good word, because first is good meet a guy and see if his apparence is enough attracted for us and see too if their personality or "inside" or heart is enough good for us.
Balance is the key.