Attraction and feelings are two diferent things. Attraction is you feel that you physical feels attracted for someone and your "nature" is what command your desire. Feelings is you like or hate or love someone and is what your "inside" tells you.Some people put this things together, attraction and feelings. Today attraction has more value than feelings because most of people, for them, physical apparence is very important and they forget the balance between attraction and feelings. Is important exist a balance because exist many people that have great body but their "inside" is empty and only have their inside "images" that their instints want. Exist too many people that have a beautiful "inside" but their apparence is not exactley accept for the rules of be model or something like this.
For guys who want find a guy that will make them happy is important give value to this two things. Is important because many guys who only give the importance for attraction is simple: they only want sex and is important too, because many guys who only give the importance for feelings forget their true "nature" (be homosexual or heterosexual), is our nature that will show us what we feel attracted or in other words: our genes.
Average is good word, because first is good meet a guy and see if his apparence is enough attracted for us and see too if their personality or "inside" or heart is enough good for us.
Balance is the key.
