Adult

Everything became mature, we born, we live and we die. Is Nature law no one can change that.
Every person is diferent because everyone has a special nature or personality.
Adult... for people, is some person that has some age or a mature personality. Today one person is considerate mature or adult with 21 but when this person has 18, is too considerate adult. Adult age is subjective because is diferent for culture of any nation.
Our personality, said some scientists begin when we are inside of our mother because is "the build of our nature". In our teenage our body change, we feel many emotions and is this time that our personality became more stronger. School or family are very important for help build our personality with some values.
Is when we have 21 that our body is "complete" and our adult personality is too complete and for example what our parents of family or friends teach us, now is values that our personality has. Exist people that have a good family that teach always the good values, respect others, fight for their objectives and more but some this people falls is opposite side, some of them, because of their friends. You can see one type of person if you look at her friends, because friends show others what type of people we are, what we identify.
Sex became more important we our teenage because is when is change and for example we can see in this what our nature tells us, (heterosexuality or homosexuality).
21 is important because is one year of our life that we choose away. 21 is important because is when for example our height stop etc... In this age we have complete our adult personality and we have the values that will make a orientation for our life. For monogamous homosexual men this is a important age because is when for example we want make alliance with someone and make a family. Exist two diferent ways: one is find someone for share our life other is the "fun" someone. For who choose the "fun" way maybe dont exist retourn and if someday you change your mind is late because life is short and for example for make a healthy family is need time for find the right partner, time for live together and time for make plans for have a children for example. Make a family is very complex and serious of course for who choose the "fun" way you can make a family, called "friendly family".
Of course life is short and we must pay attention what we choose and we want because can became one way without retourn. If everyone were "easy" or conformist maybe Christopher Columbus didnt find America or for example we dont have Internet because "is need so many work to do.." or the moon never saw the men etc...
Sometimes the easy way became more dificult and confused and we became lost. People who are adult choose their way and deal with consequences. Is the law of life we choose and receive the good or bad that our life has to offers you.

Values

When we are kids, our parents teach us what is good or bad. Education is a complex process because is subjective, and any person is diferent.
What is about, values? When we like very much one thing we preserve this thing and possible protect. Give value, to something, is like and have appreciation for that thing.
Values are very important because is a way of care and give attention to some things. Exist many types of values, values can be for objects or for people. For a man, values are very important because is what make diference of be human or animal. For example: One person very rich, that is billionaire, this person can have what she wants or desire because she can afford to buy what she wants, but if she has many things like for example a undread cars of top level, she can use one car any day... These person give values to these things? No, because she has so many cars that doenst matter if she choose brand "A" or brand "B", and if she loose one, for example in acident doenst matter... In other side, one normal person that has one or two cars, she gives values to these things, because for buy this cars were hard make money for have them, so she have careful and care about these cars.
This example was for show that values is important because, doenst matter have many things, but what matters is have one and give all attention and care about. When we have many things we loose the sense of values because we have so many that all objects, people seams the same and we cant see anymore what is important or not.
We give values to some thing, when we like or love so we have diferent attitude to things that we like or things that we dont.
Exist other type of values, spiritual values that is about love and the fight for find perfection, doenst matter religion, have religion or not what matters is we try find perfection and work hard for dont repeat our mistakes. People with values are peaceful, gentile, care about other, try make world better place.
For have a perfect or almost perfect balance of have a relationship we need have values, for our personality, work, or for love... Sex is perfect example, because if you believe in love or you loves someone, you only share your sex with the right person because she is diferent of other and she is unique, in other word...special!

The dream

Try listen your heart and see what he tells you. Silence can show us what guy is good for us. To find the perfect guy , in my opinion , we must hear our heart and think about it.
Sometimes dreams can show to us what guy our heart wants. If he is tall, muscular guy, short, long hair, eye color, brown etc... For those who want find the perfect guy, we must hear our heart and "build" the guy that we want. Dreams sometimes help this when you have deep dreams that everything seams real.
If in your dream some guy close to you and you feels a huge atraction for him, try look at details that your dream show. What he like, what is eye color, hair, if is muscle or not, what feelings he show to you, if is shy, strong, sweet and more. This details is your nature, the nature your heart and of your genes.
I am not say about actors or models that you saw, but I am refer to a guy who is "build" for you in your deep soul, your nature. When the construct of this guy is complete you have the step number one that is: what guy I am looking for.
Dreams or our deep thougts are the nature that we have and this nature that we have give us signs for look for elements that complete us. Dont forget that we are nature, everything that exist in earth is conected and have elements that are very similaries.
If look for example, you were study in the school the element of periodic table you see that exist elements that are homo, hetero, and what reaction have anyone. This elements can have a reaction for positive or negative. This are the perfect example for find the perfect guy.
Everyone has a unique nature. When you "build" the idea of perfect guy for you, you can start to look and have a idea what you looking for.
I have my "guy" "build" the guy that I want and I am looking for him, thats is hard thing to do, but I have hope and I am happy look for him because I know what he is like and the same time that I look for him I can explore my feelings and enjoy my "deep me".
One of greatest problems thats why is very hard find the perfect guy is because we must see if we are in harmony and if we want the same thing. If you find the guy thats you maybe think thats the one, try know more about him and see if your nature is similary, if not is waste of time and soon or later you will finished the relationship.
Well, if you dont ever have a deep dream that a strange man that you dont know and maybe he are the guy that you want, now is time for have this dream a see what "your guy" wants, he is like, and see your deep nature.

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