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Power

Power. Is what every man wants. Masculinity is a symbol of power, strong. Masculinity has many symbols... Our star the Sun is too a symbol of masculinity... in other side the Moon is femenine.
You can see in a man many aspects that he show... have a great car with potence, go to gym for take good his body, sports and more. Exist too men that think that they are masculine but in reality they are stupid because been masculine is not drive fast, drink a lots of beers... Exist many people that think that gay people in aspect of men are femenine or want change sex. Of course is not truth, exist many gay men that are masculine. People are diferent and what defines our gender is not only our physic but is too our mind. For have balance people must accept that all people are diferent and is normal have with us masculinity and femenine together.. So a little boy can play with dolls and a little girl can play with cars. Is normal and if a boy plays with dolls doesnt means that he´s gay or if a girl play with cars doesnt means that she´s lesbian. Power of masculinity what really is? Is have a great body? a great house and many money? a great car? lots of friends? use people like dolls? Power can be for many people these things that I said here, but a true power that make us men and honor our masculinity is find the happiness of our soul and feel that our "temple" have everything that we need like our soulmate, love, heath, peace, balance. For example when happen a global disaster like earthquake, we see that some things in our life have more value than others... and superficial things doesnt matter. In our life we control this "power" that is catch the most important things and share our time like the last day. For example in XXI century exist people that cant have this "power" like choose his/her husband/wife... or people that waste time with "dolls" and stupid parties. Our power is choose our destiny and have everything that our "temple" and "soul" needs.

Responsibility

Responsibility is a important value that one person has. Responsibility is someone that is mature enough for respond for his errors or his behavior. Some person who have responsibility know that when we loose the sense of responsibilities we deal with consequences.
Many men and women today want be free, dont care about have responsibilities or dont care about commitment because commintment is necessary responsibility for mantein one relationship and think about the partner.
This responsibility is about our choices, acts, behavior that we have and the others, special the family.
Young people want live the life like the last day and I ask: what is a men without dreams, plans, or ambition for the future? well in my opinion is just one empty person because dreams, plans, and ambition is what make our world move, make evolution... Of course we dont know the future but our present give us clues about what is comming next. Our choices in present have consequences in the future. People today want what is easy to get, and many guys use their bodies to get this that is sex without commitment. They know that they can use a "friend" any time and send him go away any time and next choose other "friend" and etc. Close of 80% of gay guys do this. If 1 in 12 are gay people, see this 80% show that exist a small number who believe in relationships and special in love. Exist many gay people that fight for equal in marriage like the heterosexual couples and are people that believe in relationships. Almost gay guys dont care about relationships what they want is a large number of friends as possible and explore them. I believe that for example in California gay marriage was ban because some gay guys or girls vote ban the marriage so the fault is not all of church some gay people can have a little fault in that... we dont know... but see many guys who doesnt care about... can make us think that they vote for ban marriage.
For who believe in relationships and want share his life with other person know that all time is important for find who we love and dont loose time with illutions, empty people, bad friends, and look for find the partner because they know that soon or later we will receive the consequences of our choices and is not when we have sixty that we will make a relationship or make a family because for do this exist times that we must respect.
Exist people who doesnt care about family or other people. They are selfish enough for forget that they dont are alone, we have people that belong to us and care about us so our choices can be part of our family or friends. Like one song say "its now or never" means that we have one opportunity: born, live and death... Most of things that we do in our lifes is only one opportunity. Have responsibility is important because show us and others that we are mature enough for make a relationship, care about others and be a true man.

The kiss

If have a partner you like spend time with him, because you like him and you need him. The time that you and him are together is very important because is a time that you share with him, affection, conversation, feelings, touch, and kisses.
Affection is a human sign. Kiss your partner make you feel good and him and when you kiss him you feel that you make a connection with him.
Spend hours and hours kiss the partner is good for relationships. We can kiss the partner when we see movies together, walk on the beach, do sports, conversation. Hugs is very important too, like kisses so all affection is necessary for mantein a connection with the partner.
The moment of the kiss is when we feel that our partner belongs to us and is like a part of us that we want touch. When two humans kiss they stay connected and enjoy the touch.
Gay man can kiss his partner in public places like everyone (some places where dont exist ignorance) and is good a gay man show to other people that love his partner but sometimes is too much because exist that people that are always kiss in public that make people shy, is like that expression "get a room". Of course if we have a partner we can kiss him in public but with preference places like beach, large public places... not for example in the library where we are for study or read because we distract people.
Be a private person is very important and is good too for mantein intimacy. All secrets are between the couple. We must have proud of kiss the partner in public because is one person that belong to us but exist people that do this to much, for example, you are in seat public read and sundley arrive a couple that start kiss so with noises, you feel distract so you move for leave them alone with their intimacy.
Any way the kiss is good, is one sign that we love someone and we need this "someone" but of course we must have respect and share our intimacy with the right person.

Values

When we are kids, our parents teach us what is good or bad. Education is a complex process because is subjective, and any person is diferent.
What is about, values? When we like very much one thing we preserve this thing and possible protect. Give value, to something, is like and have appreciation for that thing.
Values are very important because is a way of care and give attention to some things. Exist many types of values, values can be for objects or for people. For a man, values are very important because is what make diference of be human or animal. For example: One person very rich, that is billionaire, this person can have what she wants or desire because she can afford to buy what she wants, but if she has many things like for example a undread cars of top level, she can use one car any day... These person give values to these things? No, because she has so many cars that doenst matter if she choose brand "A" or brand "B", and if she loose one, for example in acident doenst matter... In other side, one normal person that has one or two cars, she gives values to these things, because for buy this cars were hard make money for have them, so she have careful and care about these cars.
This example was for show that values is important because, doenst matter have many things, but what matters is have one and give all attention and care about. When we have many things we loose the sense of values because we have so many that all objects, people seams the same and we cant see anymore what is important or not.
We give values to some thing, when we like or love so we have diferent attitude to things that we like or things that we dont.
Exist other type of values, spiritual values that is about love and the fight for find perfection, doenst matter religion, have religion or not what matters is we try find perfection and work hard for dont repeat our mistakes. People with values are peaceful, gentile, care about other, try make world better place.
For have a perfect or almost perfect balance of have a relationship we need have values, for our personality, work, or for love... Sex is perfect example, because if you believe in love or you loves someone, you only share your sex with the right person because she is diferent of other and she is unique, in other word...special!

Single men

Exist many men single and exist many reasons too. Create good, health, serious relationships is very complex. Men who are monogamous try look for one partner serious, loyal, beautiful, strong... is a dream of any men find the perfect one.

To find the perfect one we must look for him and to do this we must work a lot our search. Most part of men wants stay single because they are superficial people and dont care about making or share their lifes. They only want have a boyfriend and after use him, leave and look for others sexual partners. Exist many rare monogamous men singles and find one like this is like find the diemant or gold. Good, exist people who work a lot to find the right one and are smart and dont fall in superficial instints.

First we must make a idea what man we want and next see what tools we need to look for him. To look for the guy of our hearts we must be objective and every day work a lot.

Many men when are with desire for have contact or wants make sex, they have speed dates and when this happen we loose more time and our "temple" stay dirty. Speed dates are a illusion and people who make this with time they loose the pure "temple" and the chance for have one serious partner, and family.

We are part of Nature of course we are... In animals when they want relations they do any what they want, but they are animals and have superficial instints like make sex and make this they dont out hurt in their feelings. Even animals can love behind their superficial instints but humans can love with more deep feelings.

Everyone has superficial or primary instints like sleep, eat and make sex. But if a man is single and is monogamous how he put free or fight with this instints to preserve his "temple"? Well many single monogamous men make mastrubation. When we are with a strong desire for have conection we, homosexual men monogamous, we can touch our body and imagine our future partner. We do this to preserve our "temple" because is very important. When I say mastrubation is only clean do this, if what estimulate us is the "guy" who we make and have the idea what he is like. If you are gay single men and do mastrubation when you see porn, in your thoughts the picture of your guy stay confuse and your "temple" is not clean anymore.

Is important preserve our "temple" clean, inside and outside. We can touch our body, is our, and mantein "temple" clean and waiting for the guy who will enjoy the secrets that we have and get the strong love that we want give.

Touch our body, maybe many times a day is normal and is good for gay singles to mantein their "temples" clean and imagine day after day the guy who will appears in our lifes... So, for put out our superficial instints we can do this with a "guy" who we build and preserve our "gold" that is our sex for who we love.

The dream

Try listen your heart and see what he tells you. Silence can show us what guy is good for us. To find the perfect guy , in my opinion , we must hear our heart and think about it.
Sometimes dreams can show to us what guy our heart wants. If he is tall, muscular guy, short, long hair, eye color, brown etc... For those who want find the perfect guy, we must hear our heart and "build" the guy that we want. Dreams sometimes help this when you have deep dreams that everything seams real.
If in your dream some guy close to you and you feels a huge atraction for him, try look at details that your dream show. What he like, what is eye color, hair, if is muscle or not, what feelings he show to you, if is shy, strong, sweet and more. This details is your nature, the nature your heart and of your genes.
I am not say about actors or models that you saw, but I am refer to a guy who is "build" for you in your deep soul, your nature. When the construct of this guy is complete you have the step number one that is: what guy I am looking for.
Dreams or our deep thougts are the nature that we have and this nature that we have give us signs for look for elements that complete us. Dont forget that we are nature, everything that exist in earth is conected and have elements that are very similaries.
If look for example, you were study in the school the element of periodic table you see that exist elements that are homo, hetero, and what reaction have anyone. This elements can have a reaction for positive or negative. This are the perfect example for find the perfect guy.
Everyone has a unique nature. When you "build" the idea of perfect guy for you, you can start to look and have a idea what you looking for.
I have my "guy" "build" the guy that I want and I am looking for him, thats is hard thing to do, but I have hope and I am happy look for him because I know what he is like and the same time that I look for him I can explore my feelings and enjoy my "deep me".
One of greatest problems thats why is very hard find the perfect guy is because we must see if we are in harmony and if we want the same thing. If you find the guy thats you maybe think thats the one, try know more about him and see if your nature is similary, if not is waste of time and soon or later you will finished the relationship.
Well, if you dont ever have a deep dream that a strange man that you dont know and maybe he are the guy that you want, now is time for have this dream a see what "your guy" wants, he is like, and see your deep nature.