Showing posts with label good guy or bad guy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label good guy or bad guy. Show all posts

2.14.2009

good guy or bad guy

Find the guy that we want is very hard and sometimes we can do mistakes... How complex is relationships and how complex is anyone.
Look every day we see so many guys but we must see if this person is good for us and see if we can see any future for make a relationship with that person. If we are man monogamous we must look for one guy who is monogamous and is too looking for us. True love is very hard find because is extreme value and important thing and find a guy who love us is like a miracle. Exist many men that have friends but in reality they are lovers and not "just friends" and many men use term "fun" for say sex and they think that f'ck a friend or other doenst matter so this guys are not monogamous and singles if is the case. True singles are the guys who dont have any relations with others guys and dont have sexual activity... Many men say that are single but if they date in same time and have sexual partners they in true are swigger. When we see one guy that are interest we must know about him and see if he is single, if is homosexual, what he looking for, to see if we are same level and see what he want for the future like have kids or dont have kids...
For those who look every day for the right one we see many guys for example in sites for find gay love and we must see with careful if is the guy that we want or no. I am talking about gay guys who are monogamous. Example you saw profile with one guy that you every wants, he have a great body, one guy that is like a angel, so you stay quick in love for him but with more details you see... looking casual date. The guy that you saw is not for you because if you want a serious relationship, are monogamous and want build a family unfornatelly this guy is not for you.
Our guy must be beautiful inside and outside, because if not we stay with one guy that think in diferent way. We need find one guy that is our nature, someone who wants similiaries plans for the future like we want, someone who is too single, looking for us and we trying find they. Is very complex, and some guys quit or dont care about find the true love or dont want explore deep feelings and share their lifes.
For those who have a relationship in beginnig we must make a "test" to our guy. See his past, what others say about his personality, how many guys he date in past etc... One test that you can do is: Tell him to call a exactly hour, minutes, to say to you that he loves you... If he calls very later, far from this hour or forget call to you is maybe because he dont really loves you because when we love someone we always count the hour or minutes, seconds to see this person, so is vey strange if the guy who loves us forget call us to say "I love you". Of course can exist for example, problems with phones that is understand. Other test to see if this guy is good for us and love us is for example see if he mastrubate. If you catch you boyfriend mastrubate is because he dont loves you and dont have pleasure sexual with you. Mastrubation in a relationship is no sense because if we have other person to be the object of love, desire, sexual partner we dont need make mastrubation because if we do this we are traitors not in our body but in our thoughts. For love one guy we must be entire and give him our body and our thoughts.
Love is gift, is because is very hard find it. For those who have the perfect one they know how extraordinary is have someone that complete us. For those who want find true love, we must look for him and soon or later maybe he arrive in our door.

1.29.2009

The dream

Try listen your heart and see what he tells you. Silence can show us what guy is good for us. To find the perfect guy , in my opinion , we must hear our heart and think about it.
Sometimes dreams can show to us what guy our heart wants. If he is tall, muscular guy, short, long hair, eye color, brown etc... For those who want find the perfect guy, we must hear our heart and "build" the guy that we want. Dreams sometimes help this when you have deep dreams that everything seams real.
If in your dream some guy close to you and you feels a huge atraction for him, try look at details that your dream show. What he like, what is eye color, hair, if is muscle or not, what feelings he show to you, if is shy, strong, sweet and more. This details is your nature, the nature your heart and of your genes.
I am not say about actors or models that you saw, but I am refer to a guy who is "build" for you in your deep soul, your nature. When the construct of this guy is complete you have the step number one that is: what guy I am looking for.
Dreams or our deep thougts are the nature that we have and this nature that we have give us signs for look for elements that complete us. Dont forget that we are nature, everything that exist in earth is conected and have elements that are very similaries.
If look for example, you were study in the school the element of periodic table you see that exist elements that are homo, hetero, and what reaction have anyone. This elements can have a reaction for positive or negative. This are the perfect example for find the perfect guy.
Everyone has a unique nature. When you "build" the idea of perfect guy for you, you can start to look and have a idea what you looking for.
I have my "guy" "build" the guy that I want and I am looking for him, thats is hard thing to do, but I have hope and I am happy look for him because I know what he is like and the same time that I look for him I can explore my feelings and enjoy my "deep me".
One of greatest problems thats why is very hard find the perfect guy is because we must see if we are in harmony and if we want the same thing. If you find the guy thats you maybe think thats the one, try know more about him and see if your nature is similary, if not is waste of time and soon or later you will finished the relationship.
Well, if you dont ever have a deep dream that a strange man that you dont know and maybe he are the guy that you want, now is time for have this dream a see what "your guy" wants, he is like, and see your deep nature.