good guy or bad guy

Find the guy that we want is very hard and sometimes we can do mistakes... How complex is relationships and how complex is anyone.
Look every day we see so many guys but we must see if this person is good for us and see if we can see any future for make a relationship with that person. If we are man monogamous we must look for one guy who is monogamous and is too looking for us. True love is very hard find because is extreme value and important thing and find a guy who love us is like a miracle. Exist many men that have friends but in reality they are lovers and not "just friends" and many men use term "fun" for say sex and they think that f'ck a friend or other doenst matter so this guys are not monogamous and singles if is the case. True singles are the guys who dont have any relations with others guys and dont have sexual activity... Many men say that are single but if they date in same time and have sexual partners they in true are swigger. When we see one guy that are interest we must know about him and see if he is single, if is homosexual, what he looking for, to see if we are same level and see what he want for the future like have kids or dont have kids...
For those who look every day for the right one we see many guys for example in sites for find gay love and we must see with careful if is the guy that we want or no. I am talking about gay guys who are monogamous. Example you saw profile with one guy that you every wants, he have a great body, one guy that is like a angel, so you stay quick in love for him but with more details you see... looking casual date. The guy that you saw is not for you because if you want a serious relationship, are monogamous and want build a family unfornatelly this guy is not for you.
Our guy must be beautiful inside and outside, because if not we stay with one guy that think in diferent way. We need find one guy that is our nature, someone who wants similiaries plans for the future like we want, someone who is too single, looking for us and we trying find they. Is very complex, and some guys quit or dont care about find the true love or dont want explore deep feelings and share their lifes.
For those who have a relationship in beginnig we must make a "test" to our guy. See his past, what others say about his personality, how many guys he date in past etc... One test that you can do is: Tell him to call a exactly hour, minutes, to say to you that he loves you... If he calls very later, far from this hour or forget call to you is maybe because he dont really loves you because when we love someone we always count the hour or minutes, seconds to see this person, so is vey strange if the guy who loves us forget call us to say "I love you". Of course can exist for example, problems with phones that is understand. Other test to see if this guy is good for us and love us is for example see if he mastrubate. If you catch you boyfriend mastrubate is because he dont loves you and dont have pleasure sexual with you. Mastrubation in a relationship is no sense because if we have other person to be the object of love, desire, sexual partner we dont need make mastrubation because if we do this we are traitors not in our body but in our thoughts. For love one guy we must be entire and give him our body and our thoughts.
Love is gift, is because is very hard find it. For those who have the perfect one they know how extraordinary is have someone that complete us. For those who want find true love, we must look for him and soon or later maybe he arrive in our door.