All good things arent easy, for example, find a diemant, gold, build machines, science, perfection, and more... Arent easy because for have this things is need very work, very work to do these things.Is like the true love, because find the true love is very hard and is need many work for find him. True love can be subjective or dont? What people want more? People exactley want (for who believes in love and wants build one relationship) is a partner that will enjoy the union and someone that is our side in long our life for suport us and share our life. So, I can say that people want the same thing, find someone for share their lifes and of course can be subjective but if we see, is almost the same thing. Humans are very complex and sometimes we see for example in the news terrible things that we ask: "how can people do these things?".
We choose soon our away, and we deal with our consequences of that choise, and for who wants build a family, have someone for share our lifes we must be objective, know what we want for us.
Search for a partner is not easy, of course if you are "boy next door" you can enjoy the speed dates, play with your dick on webcam and etc... this is easy... for find our partner we must look in every directions and be open for the world. This sacrifice is preserve our temple or sex, look for find these guy, have values, in other words, following the perfection.
In ancient times exist men that were very empty and ignorant, but in present that we live in one world that is connected, is more modern and know what is good or is bad, we see many young people do the same things that our grandfathers or grandmothers did. One word: Dah! Is possible that after we know the past, do the same mistakes? Truth is that humans arent perfect. Exist for example sites that detroy values, and teach treat people like objects and shit. But of course is these stupid people that falls so easy, they dont understand that what these people want is used you and get your money from you, nothing more. Exist good sites too, for serious people and if you want make a profile in the net you must look for sites that is special for make relationships.
If we are single men or woman we need preserve our temple because our sex or connection is very important and rare thing that we must treat like gold.
Of course many say that the love come to our door in maybe a day, but if you dont move, stay in same place you loose the oportunity of meet someone special. Maybe is someone looking for you... who knows, and, if these person finds you and see that you are "lazy" because you are conformist that always prefer the easy things, these person leave in exactley moment.
Sacrifice is hard and sometimes painful but if in the end you find what do you looking for you will see that was necessary and important.
