Being superficial person, today is easy... You can make your "style" and dont worry about the future and live the life to the fullest. In the days of now humanity have many crisis, between them are lust. Lust is about the desire of have many sexual activity and dont make rules... Today more than half of humanity have the "sin" of lust. People want what is easy without commitement, rules, exclusivity, and loose the sense what is marriage.What is the cause of this? Is very simple... people are selfish, dont know what they want from future, for them future doesnt matter.
But why lust is considerate for example for religions a sin? Is simple, because sex is more complex what people think. Sex is for reproduction, love, connection, intimany and identity. For example for people who are swigger, they do sex with everyone, so they loose intimacy and dont have respect for what their sex "means". Is confuse, and many people think that for example, people who are monogamous make drama... but is not because when people who are swigger make sex with many people even if this people dont have, feelings like afection, they create a "hole" in the person that they make sex. What is this hole? This hole is the intimacy, because intimacy is very important for build a relationship. If this person has many "friends", and if in a day she finds one special person is very complicate because her intimacy is lost.
Humans can be more than "racional animals" and for monogamous men intimacy is very important because when they find the right person they became "one" and their connection is strong because dont exist "holes" between them.
Many guys go to the gym for have the "perfect body" but in fact what they think is make many friends as possible and sleep with them one day, week after week, night yes, night no, etc... One caracterists of lust is people who only think is have a beautiful body, make many sex as possible and dont care about values. Exist many guys that you saw and you think: these guy is gorgeous. Exist many guys gorgeous but what they want is sex, and use people like object that sleep with partner "A", next partner "C", next partner "B, again partner "A" etc and what is incredible is that some of them dont remember of names with people that they sleep... Strange irony.
Being sexaholic in some societies is a taboo because most people today think that is very normal use one person, and next other.
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