2.08.2010

Brokeback Mountain - This love

Power

Power. Is what every man wants. Masculinity is a symbol of power, strong. Masculinity has many symbols... Our star the Sun is too a symbol of masculinity... in other side the Moon is femenine.
You can see in a man many aspects that he show... have a great car with potence, go to gym for take good his body, sports and more. Exist too men that think that they are masculine but in reality they are stupid because been masculine is not drive fast, drink a lots of beers... Exist many people that think that gay people in aspect of men are femenine or want change sex. Of course is not truth, exist many gay men that are masculine. People are diferent and what defines our gender is not only our physic but is too our mind. For have balance people must accept that all people are diferent and is normal have with us masculinity and femenine together.. So a little boy can play with dolls and a little girl can play with cars. Is normal and if a boy plays with dolls doesnt means that he´s gay or if a girl play with cars doesnt means that she´s lesbian. Power of masculinity what really is? Is have a great body? a great house and many money? a great car? lots of friends? use people like dolls? Power can be for many people these things that I said here, but a true power that make us men and honor our masculinity is find the happiness of our soul and feel that our "temple" have everything that we need like our soulmate, love, heath, peace, balance. For example when happen a global disaster like earthquake, we see that some things in our life have more value than others... and superficial things doesnt matter. In our life we control this "power" that is catch the most important things and share our time like the last day. For example in XXI century exist people that cant have this "power" like choose his/her husband/wife... or people that waste time with "dolls" and stupid parties. Our power is choose our destiny and have everything that our "temple" and "soul" needs.

9.06.2009

Responsibility

Responsibility is a important value that one person has. Responsibility is someone that is mature enough for respond for his errors or his behavior. Some person who have responsibility know that when we loose the sense of responsibilities we deal with consequences.
Many men and women today want be free, dont care about have responsibilities or dont care about commitment because commintment is necessary responsibility for mantein one relationship and think about the partner.
This responsibility is about our choices, acts, behavior that we have and the others, special the family.
Young people want live the life like the last day and I ask: what is a men without dreams, plans, or ambition for the future? well in my opinion is just one empty person because dreams, plans, and ambition is what make our world move, make evolution... Of course we dont know the future but our present give us clues about what is comming next. Our choices in present have consequences in the future. People today want what is easy to get, and many guys use their bodies to get this that is sex without commitment. They know that they can use a "friend" any time and send him go away any time and next choose other "friend" and etc. Close of 80% of gay guys do this. If 1 in 12 are gay people, see this 80% show that exist a small number who believe in relationships and special in love. Exist many gay people that fight for equal in marriage like the heterosexual couples and are people that believe in relationships. Almost gay guys dont care about relationships what they want is a large number of friends as possible and explore them. I believe that for example in California gay marriage was ban because some gay guys or girls vote ban the marriage so the fault is not all of church some gay people can have a little fault in that... we dont know... but see many guys who doesnt care about... can make us think that they vote for ban marriage.
For who believe in relationships and want share his life with other person know that all time is important for find who we love and dont loose time with illutions, empty people, bad friends, and look for find the partner because they know that soon or later we will receive the consequences of our choices and is not when we have sixty that we will make a relationship or make a family because for do this exist times that we must respect.
Exist people who doesnt care about family or other people. They are selfish enough for forget that they dont are alone, we have people that belong to us and care about us so our choices can be part of our family or friends. Like one song say "its now or never" means that we have one opportunity: born, live and death... Most of things that we do in our lifes is only one opportunity. Have responsibility is important because show us and others that we are mature enough for make a relationship, care about others and be a true man.