Preserve

Preserve. Preserve, today, in aspect of relationships, is forgotten. We live in one world that, carpediem is more present, so, people want live present day like the last day.
Is ok, and is good live every day like the last one, but, in some aspect we must see if we waste our time well. Today many people go to, open relationships, speed dates, have lovers and enjoy many partners as possible. For monogamous and homosexual men, find the right one stay more dificult find one serious partner. Is good live the present, but in aspect of love we must be realistic and choose one away. We choose live the present and dont care about the future or live the present and build the present thinking in the future.
In opinion of monogamous and homosexual men we must preserve our body or "temple" and wait for the one. Speed dates, friends that are like lovers, many sexual partners, all this can give more trouble because our feelings get, with time confuse and we waste our time with superficial things. We must look, live, enjoy our present , but when we do this we preserve or temple for one day in far present or in future share our life with our guy.

Values

When we are kids, our parents teach us what is good or bad. Education is a complex process because is subjective, and any person is diferent.
What is about, values? When we like very much one thing we preserve this thing and possible protect. Give value, to something, is like and have appreciation for that thing.
Values are very important because is a way of care and give attention to some things. Exist many types of values, values can be for objects or for people. For a man, values are very important because is what make diference of be human or animal. For example: One person very rich, that is billionaire, this person can have what she wants or desire because she can afford to buy what she wants, but if she has many things like for example a undread cars of top level, she can use one car any day... These person give values to these things? No, because she has so many cars that doenst matter if she choose brand "A" or brand "B", and if she loose one, for example in acident doenst matter... In other side, one normal person that has one or two cars, she gives values to these things, because for buy this cars were hard make money for have them, so she have careful and care about these cars.
This example was for show that values is important because, doenst matter have many things, but what matters is have one and give all attention and care about. When we have many things we loose the sense of values because we have so many that all objects, people seams the same and we cant see anymore what is important or not.
We give values to some thing, when we like or love so we have diferent attitude to things that we like or things that we dont.
Exist other type of values, spiritual values that is about love and the fight for find perfection, doenst matter religion, have religion or not what matters is we try find perfection and work hard for dont repeat our mistakes. People with values are peaceful, gentile, care about other, try make world better place.
For have a perfect or almost perfect balance of have a relationship we need have values, for our personality, work, or for love... Sex is perfect example, because if you believe in love or you loves someone, you only share your sex with the right person because she is diferent of other and she is unique, in other word...special!

Plan

Do you know what do you want for the future? Many guys dont, they dont know nothing about it. Future is a real enigma because we dont know if tomorow we are alive but we must look at the present and take a idea what is our future.

Relationship, is one word that scary many guys... dont worry, if this word are scary for you and when you prefer others words like "dating" or "fun" maybe in future when other guys used you and treat you like a object, the words that will be for you are:"you are f"cked".

A real man must have plans for the future because is what make us really men. Men who are single must work for find the one, and when I say work, is definitely work.

You must be objective for find the one and remember that not everyone has luck. In other posts I refer to some places that I will not say again... For example if you have a profile in net for singles and in aspect of search, if someone see your profile this:"casual, chat, relationship, friends" etc... this is from someone that in reality dont look for find the real partner, and, for him doenst matter if is casual, friend or relationship. Relationship must be in other level, high level because for make a serious relationship we must treat love like gold.

If you look every day for the one, and seperate friendship of true relationship and be a spiritual person maybe someone appears. Not everyone has lucky because find true love is a miracle in this world because many people focus their attention in superficial things, they are materialists, so, for find the love we must to have a balance between our "real" world and our spirituality. Doesnt matter religion, what matters is, our work for have better things or became better people, and perfection is very far, very far but is important we follow this away for find perfection.

Dont exist perfect people, but exist people that see a mistake and can change the way that lived before. Be objective will help you find what you are looking for... What is a men without dreams? a man without dreams are like animals because they do usual things like sleep, eat and mate but in animals this is their nature no one can change this, but humans have free will for try find perfection.

Age

Human life or other type of life has limit. Things arent imortal, so, we born, we live and we die. We cant do nothing about it... Life is precious and we need enjoy the time that we have.
Humans can live many years, but we dont know what our life give us in the future. Men who want make a alliance, know that time is precious and work a lot to find the one.
When we are kids, we life in a world of fantasy (some kids, cause exist real truth), we play, we dream, we love , but this love is more about friendship like the partner that we want play football, play with cars, bike, and other sports for example. Is one love of friendship that dont exist any sexual contact but a friendship like brothers.
Teenage, we see that our body change and our "real us" is in construction and we sometimes stay confuse about ourselfls and the the world outside. Is in teenage that our sexual orientation is more visible because is when we start to feel attraction for someone.
In adult life maybe for 21 to 50 is a important period of our lifes because what we "catch" from teenager like do the right things, respect other, try work for be a good person, have responsebility, know the bad things and what hurt us... all things. Is in our adult life that we must choose a away, choose a "map" and follow this away and find or build our destiny. Everyone is diferent and this "map" is subjective because anyone do what wants and have free will to choose.
For homosexual adult men of 21 to 40, this is special period to make a family and stablish a serious relationship like find the real one, make plans for the future and maybe adopt some childreen and give the love of parents. This is extremly dificult because we live in a world that families are "extintion". Many homosexual men are superficial, and dont know nothing about them. Some of this men never grow up, and stay in physiological teenager that what they want is only friendship based in sex. Man, and special homosexual men exist in every part of world and is hard find some serious guy that arent in closet, are monogamous, loyal and treat love like gold. One of problems that we have in our world and make more harder find someone serious, is the problem sexaholic. People that focus their attention in images like porno movies, speed dates, treat people like objects, use friends to satisfy primary instint and say in next moment "bye". But in other side, in a little number exist men that want more that simple contact, men that want stablish a real connection and belong to someone else, so, they hard to find this one for share their lifes. For make a real family in this period, 21 to 50 because is when we are younger and for example for couples who want have kids, this period is very important.
Next and last, is when we are old... I dont know nothing about it yet... but I hope someday know what is. I think is a time that we look to our past and we want feel that what we maked was good and have proud of do that, so we can say that was a bless live and do things that we have many proud.
We arent imortal like I say, enjoy every minute of our life is precious, but when I say enjoy every minute is not make many things as possible, but give them the real value and choose the most important for us.

Nudity

Our body is a treasure, beauty and very special. Everyone has sex, male or female and can be homosexual or heterosexual doenst matter...
Sex is part of us for transmit affection for other person or for identify us. Today people know the human body but in centuries ago, nudity was shameful. In some cultures, for example women hide her face and your body for preserve for her partners. Other cultures in Africa nudity for them are normal and they live without problems with their nudity, of course, I am talking in people that lives far from civilization...
In my opinion I think is important preserve or body, because is personal and in real world exist people that have dirty thoughts and look at someone and only think that want make sex with that person, sure, I am talking in sexaholics that compare people to objects... Is not necessary hide our face like some women in some cultures, for preserve our body.
Our genitals must be hide because is very personal and only have acess to our intimacy the person who we must share our lifes. In for example pornografy, actors that do that, they show their body to everyone and use their body like a objects and if they want build a relationship for example, the partner dont enjoy the pleasure of be the only one because if his partner make sex with everyone, what he have is too share for other men and he have a partner used many times... and is not the only pornografy actors but is too people who are swigger or have many partners. In general this people cant make serious relationships because they share their sex to everyone and everyone has acess to their intimacy so, they loose the intimacy and the private connection that sex gives.
Man body is very beautiful, and is very complex understand the importance of sex, because sex has many values, love, religion, pleasure, contact, share, reproduction and other.
We arent objects, we are human and for example animals when they do love, they dont treat the partner like a object...well some of them, in case of black widow, sometimes female eat the male but I think he die because the objective of his life is only do that, but when they mate you dont see they call bad names, make ridiculous scenes, use partner like a object...
Exist many beautiful man and people who are looking for the serious partner and when we see someone that are very attractive, in a man for example, and next moment you see that he have a great body but his thoughts are completly diferent of yours. ..So, is important find the balance for find our partner and dont loose time.

Marriage

Marriage is a serious thing... Who gives this step, found the love and the perfect partner for have one serious relationship. Marriage in ancient times was considerate pure and a union that finished only with death. In ancient times marriages was only recognize between a man and a woman and I ask was? For example in ancient Greece homosexuality was present and rich men date with young males and was considerate normal at the time. In Egypt too homosexuality was present, for example Khnumhotep and Niankhkhnum were ancient Egyptian royal servants. They shared the title of Overseer of the Manicurists in the Palace of King Niuserre during the Fifth Dynasty of Egyptian pharaohs, circa 2400 B.C., and are listed as "royal confidants" in their joint tomb. They are speculated to be the first recorded same-sex couple in history.

In modern days same sex marriage in some places of the world are recognize others no... Unfornatelly in California same sex marriage was banned because of church and ignorant ideas... Doesnt matter if are heterosexuals or homosexuals, love is a bless from nature and God.

When two creature find the love and feel that want build a rare connection and share their lifes, this gift is in reality a bless from God because they want establish one connection for entire life and became one.

Build a relationship is very serious and our "temple" must be clean for we share our soul.

I think is not need a document that says "you are married" ... and I think too, that is right two people of same sex have the right to marry because they want tell society that they are together, so, be gay or dont is a right for everyone.

Imagine your life with your partner, share your life with him, make sports, go museums, gyms, travel, make love, make plans for the future... what great thing.

We must remember that love is a gift and is one thing that we must work to get it and honor. For those who found love they know that what they have is one thing that will disapear only when they die. Is important too dont loose time with superficial things, speed dates, and more because life is a treasure that pass quickey.

Sexaholic

One person is sexaholic if is addited to sex and cant control his behavior... Like you read before, sex is one thing that is very personal because is our way for transmit affection, devotion and love so when people loose control about their instints they destroy the ability for have a heath relationship and become a sexaholic.
In society this is a taboo because no one talk about it, but is a reality that are now more present and this can have serious consequeces like one alcolic person.
I make one search about syntoms who maybe are sexaholic. 10 indications: 1ª-You have sex with more than one person a month. 2ª-You masturbate frequently 15 times a week. 3ª-You turn sexual partners into objects instead of "making love" with them. 4ª-You have more than 10 XXX videos or magazines at home. 5ª-You have anonymous sex. 6ª-You "cruise," but may call it 'people watching....' 7ª- You have sex in dangerous places. 8ª-You continually pursue "great sex." 9ª-You think about and/or talk about sex a lot. 10ª-You think that you may be a sexaholic.
Here some examples that I search. Society must have look at this and see that is a reality and change the behavior... Exist societies of anymous people who are sexaholic that can help people to recover. One serious consequence that is easy to see is for example, in the case of heterosexuals couples, the man, dont are loyal to his wife and sleep with other women. The same are the case of homosexuals...

One

One, is that we only need... one partner, one human, one creature, one love. For build a relationship, we only need a partner. Is one for one. Our "temple" is rare and only who catch our heart can get in. Who are monogamous, want someone too monogamous and take very serious monogamy and fidelity.
In our times people almost loose the sense of monogamy and this can result in serious consequences. Exist people who pay many money for have a moments with quick pleasure and they do sex. Is almost impossible people make sex without feelings because sex is something that is very personal and have many value. If someone do sex without feelings in reality, I ask: you are human? or a machine? Many guys are like machines because they do sex without feelings, only for pleasure... Sex is our treasure and is something that is very personal because is our way for transmit our connection for other human. In our world sex, is in every part and special younger men start to fall in tentations. Consequences of course is pain because after the pleasure finished came the facts and people think that was so stupid do that, special with some person that they dont love. Sex gives many pleasure, of course, but is important be with someone that we feel that this person belongs to us. Society are in storm that calls "mecanic behavior" because most people do things without think about it. One example is: guys that have great bodies but only want speed dates like make sex with some person or other.
They do sex like eat a apple, and treat people like objects. Doenst matter for them if was X or Y, is just sex... One reason that monogamy is correct is because for example when two guys do love they are in contact 100 per cent because they feel their connection equal. If are, three guys making sex in reality the pleasure that they feel not are equal and their pleasure are 33.3333... per cent because "A" partner focus attention in "B" partner, "B" partner focus his attention in "C" and "C" partner focus his attention in "B" so "A" dont have equal pleasure. More partners, less equal pleasure. For have the equal pleasure, is one for one, 100% for 100%.
Sex is really hard understant and very complex. Man is beautiful creature and Man must be ambitions, have objectives, work for find perfection.
Even animals with their instints they can love and they do sex, but they do sex with honor... and they dont lie, use, like a object. Monogamous guys have many work to do, because find someone too monogamous, true person. loyal, and are really human and not like one machine is like find a diemant. When One couple of homosexuals do love they feel that their "temples" are connected and they enjoy the 100% of love.