Adult

Everything became mature, we born, we live and we die. Is Nature law no one can change that.
Every person is diferent because everyone has a special nature or personality.
Adult... for people, is some person that has some age or a mature personality. Today one person is considerate mature or adult with 21 but when this person has 18, is too considerate adult. Adult age is subjective because is diferent for culture of any nation.
Our personality, said some scientists begin when we are inside of our mother because is "the build of our nature". In our teenage our body change, we feel many emotions and is this time that our personality became more stronger. School or family are very important for help build our personality with some values.
Is when we have 21 that our body is "complete" and our adult personality is too complete and for example what our parents of family or friends teach us, now is values that our personality has. Exist people that have a good family that teach always the good values, respect others, fight for their objectives and more but some this people falls is opposite side, some of them, because of their friends. You can see one type of person if you look at her friends, because friends show others what type of people we are, what we identify.
Sex became more important we our teenage because is when is change and for example we can see in this what our nature tells us, (heterosexuality or homosexuality).
21 is important because is one year of our life that we choose away. 21 is important because is when for example our height stop etc... In this age we have complete our adult personality and we have the values that will make a orientation for our life. For monogamous homosexual men this is a important age because is when for example we want make alliance with someone and make a family. Exist two diferent ways: one is find someone for share our life other is the "fun" someone. For who choose the "fun" way maybe dont exist retourn and if someday you change your mind is late because life is short and for example for make a healthy family is need time for find the right partner, time for live together and time for make plans for have a children for example. Make a family is very complex and serious of course for who choose the "fun" way you can make a family, called "friendly family".
Of course life is short and we must pay attention what we choose and we want because can became one way without retourn. If everyone were "easy" or conformist maybe Christopher Columbus didnt find America or for example we dont have Internet because "is need so many work to do.." or the moon never saw the men etc...
Sometimes the easy way became more dificult and confused and we became lost. People who are adult choose their way and deal with consequences. Is the law of life we choose and receive the good or bad that our life has to offers you.

Sacrifice

All good things arent easy, for example, find a diemant, gold, build machines, science, perfection, and more... Arent easy because for have this things is need very work, very work to do these things.
Is like the true love, because find the true love is very hard and is need many work for find him. True love can be subjective or dont? What people want more? People exactley want (for who believes in love and wants build one relationship) is a partner that will enjoy the union and someone that is our side in long our life for suport us and share our life. So, I can say that people want the same thing, find someone for share their lifes and of course can be subjective but if we see, is almost the same thing. Humans are very complex and sometimes we see for example in the news terrible things that we ask: "how can people do these things?".
We choose soon our away, and we deal with our consequences of that choise, and for who wants build a family, have someone for share our lifes we must be objective, know what we want for us.
Search for a partner is not easy, of course if you are "boy next door" you can enjoy the speed dates, play with your dick on webcam and etc... this is easy... for find our partner we must look in every directions and be open for the world. This sacrifice is preserve our temple or sex, look for find these guy, have values, in other words, following the perfection.
In ancient times exist men that were very empty and ignorant, but in present that we live in one world that is connected, is more modern and know what is good or is bad, we see many young people do the same things that our grandfathers or grandmothers did. One word: Dah! Is possible that after we know the past, do the same mistakes? Truth is that humans arent perfect. Exist for example sites that detroy values, and teach treat people like objects and shit. But of course is these stupid people that falls so easy, they dont understand that what these people want is used you and get your money from you, nothing more. Exist good sites too, for serious people and if you want make a profile in the net you must look for sites that is special for make relationships.
If we are single men or woman we need preserve our temple because our sex or connection is very important and rare thing that we must treat like gold.
Of course many say that the love come to our door in maybe a day, but if you dont move, stay in same place you loose the oportunity of meet someone special. Maybe is someone looking for you... who knows, and, if these person finds you and see that you are "lazy" because you are conformist that always prefer the easy things, these person leave in exactley moment.
Sacrifice is hard and sometimes painful but if in the end you find what do you looking for you will see that was necessary and important.

Conservative or liberal

Conservative or liberal? Which is better... Our world are in constant change, sometimes values change too but other is important mantein. Conservative person wants preserve ancient or present values and possible never change her mind. A liberal person wants be a "open" person that always accept the change.
In aspect of relationships, today exist so many people who have liberal idea. Is good be liberal? have "open" relationships, "free sex", "dont make drama"?. For monogamous men, of course no, because sometimes so many freedom or dont establish rules can have consequences. For example, one decade of XX century that has this theme (liberal), the decade of 60's that everyone knows because was a decade of change and that be liberal was new. Of course I am talking about the hippies, that what they want were be free of politics, free of rule, free sex, or just be free. One clear consequece was that they, with ideas of be liberal they try drugs, free sex, fight with rules of society etc. They quicley saw that what they did was too much, and one consequece was that some of them die, suicide. Some of them die because they loose the sense of rules (of course many try drugs), the sense of values...of course is not all people who I am talking about but a huge a number. This just a example.
My point is that, exist things that, of course need change but before we want change we need see if the new ideal is more perfect than the other. Today many people or couples have open relationships, they have a partner but they sometimes choose other partner for have sex, of "vitual sex" in the webcam for example. Of course is not correct because if one person has a partner for be with, why they choose have other partners? I can say, fornication, sexaholic, etc... But one thing is clear, one person that do that of course dont really love her partner. Be conservative is good because some of conservative ideas have values and teach us became better people, liberal is too good but before we change our mind we must se if the new ideal is better than the before. One balance that is great, be moderate. For example some countries accept gay marriage, so, they are conservative but accept the diference, they became moderate conservative.

Fornication

Fornication, a ancient term that was used many centuries ago. Fornication is a term which typically refers to voluntary sexual intercourse between persons not married to each other. Fornication today is more present that in ancient world. Today almost people loose the sense of marriage and purity.
Purity for example in ancient cultures was very important and a marriage only happen if for example woman or man are pure, or before marriage they never make sex.
Fornication is for people that what they see, are sex and only sex.
In ancients times fornication was considerate a crime and was shameful for the family of this person. This, in my opinion, is nothing about religion but yes, with values and honor. People must have values and honor and in ancient cultures (of course that times were not perfect) honor was very important as well purity.
In our world exist millions of people and exist a little number that look for find the perfect partner or love. Fornication is in every part, because is easy find sex and people empty. The origin of the word derives from Latin. The word fornix means "an archway" or "vault" and it became a common euphemism for a brothel as prostitutes could be solicited in the vaults beneath Rome. More directly, fornicatio means "done in the archway"; thus it originally refered to prostitution. The first recorded use of the noun in its modern meaning was in 1303 AD.
People choose what they want, but in our days see that we have more ability for find people and create health relationship and people waste their time with "slaves" and "objects". Well we choose.

Preserve

Preserve. Preserve, today, in aspect of relationships, is forgotten. We live in one world that, carpediem is more present, so, people want live present day like the last day.
Is ok, and is good live every day like the last one, but, in some aspect we must see if we waste our time well. Today many people go to, open relationships, speed dates, have lovers and enjoy many partners as possible. For monogamous and homosexual men, find the right one stay more dificult find one serious partner. Is good live the present, but in aspect of love we must be realistic and choose one away. We choose live the present and dont care about the future or live the present and build the present thinking in the future.
In opinion of monogamous and homosexual men we must preserve our body or "temple" and wait for the one. Speed dates, friends that are like lovers, many sexual partners, all this can give more trouble because our feelings get, with time confuse and we waste our time with superficial things. We must look, live, enjoy our present , but when we do this we preserve or temple for one day in far present or in future share our life with our guy.

Values

When we are kids, our parents teach us what is good or bad. Education is a complex process because is subjective, and any person is diferent.
What is about, values? When we like very much one thing we preserve this thing and possible protect. Give value, to something, is like and have appreciation for that thing.
Values are very important because is a way of care and give attention to some things. Exist many types of values, values can be for objects or for people. For a man, values are very important because is what make diference of be human or animal. For example: One person very rich, that is billionaire, this person can have what she wants or desire because she can afford to buy what she wants, but if she has many things like for example a undread cars of top level, she can use one car any day... These person give values to these things? No, because she has so many cars that doenst matter if she choose brand "A" or brand "B", and if she loose one, for example in acident doenst matter... In other side, one normal person that has one or two cars, she gives values to these things, because for buy this cars were hard make money for have them, so she have careful and care about these cars.
This example was for show that values is important because, doenst matter have many things, but what matters is have one and give all attention and care about. When we have many things we loose the sense of values because we have so many that all objects, people seams the same and we cant see anymore what is important or not.
We give values to some thing, when we like or love so we have diferent attitude to things that we like or things that we dont.
Exist other type of values, spiritual values that is about love and the fight for find perfection, doenst matter religion, have religion or not what matters is we try find perfection and work hard for dont repeat our mistakes. People with values are peaceful, gentile, care about other, try make world better place.
For have a perfect or almost perfect balance of have a relationship we need have values, for our personality, work, or for love... Sex is perfect example, because if you believe in love or you loves someone, you only share your sex with the right person because she is diferent of other and she is unique, in other word...special!

Plan

Do you know what do you want for the future? Many guys dont, they dont know nothing about it. Future is a real enigma because we dont know if tomorow we are alive but we must look at the present and take a idea what is our future.

Relationship, is one word that scary many guys... dont worry, if this word are scary for you and when you prefer others words like "dating" or "fun" maybe in future when other guys used you and treat you like a object, the words that will be for you are:"you are f"cked".

A real man must have plans for the future because is what make us really men. Men who are single must work for find the one, and when I say work, is definitely work.

You must be objective for find the one and remember that not everyone has luck. In other posts I refer to some places that I will not say again... For example if you have a profile in net for singles and in aspect of search, if someone see your profile this:"casual, chat, relationship, friends" etc... this is from someone that in reality dont look for find the real partner, and, for him doenst matter if is casual, friend or relationship. Relationship must be in other level, high level because for make a serious relationship we must treat love like gold.

If you look every day for the one, and seperate friendship of true relationship and be a spiritual person maybe someone appears. Not everyone has lucky because find true love is a miracle in this world because many people focus their attention in superficial things, they are materialists, so, for find the love we must to have a balance between our "real" world and our spirituality. Doesnt matter religion, what matters is, our work for have better things or became better people, and perfection is very far, very far but is important we follow this away for find perfection.

Dont exist perfect people, but exist people that see a mistake and can change the way that lived before. Be objective will help you find what you are looking for... What is a men without dreams? a man without dreams are like animals because they do usual things like sleep, eat and mate but in animals this is their nature no one can change this, but humans have free will for try find perfection.

Age

Human life or other type of life has limit. Things arent imortal, so, we born, we live and we die. We cant do nothing about it... Life is precious and we need enjoy the time that we have.
Humans can live many years, but we dont know what our life give us in the future. Men who want make a alliance, know that time is precious and work a lot to find the one.
When we are kids, we life in a world of fantasy (some kids, cause exist real truth), we play, we dream, we love , but this love is more about friendship like the partner that we want play football, play with cars, bike, and other sports for example. Is one love of friendship that dont exist any sexual contact but a friendship like brothers.
Teenage, we see that our body change and our "real us" is in construction and we sometimes stay confuse about ourselfls and the the world outside. Is in teenage that our sexual orientation is more visible because is when we start to feel attraction for someone.
In adult life maybe for 21 to 50 is a important period of our lifes because what we "catch" from teenager like do the right things, respect other, try work for be a good person, have responsebility, know the bad things and what hurt us... all things. Is in our adult life that we must choose a away, choose a "map" and follow this away and find or build our destiny. Everyone is diferent and this "map" is subjective because anyone do what wants and have free will to choose.
For homosexual adult men of 21 to 40, this is special period to make a family and stablish a serious relationship like find the real one, make plans for the future and maybe adopt some childreen and give the love of parents. This is extremly dificult because we live in a world that families are "extintion". Many homosexual men are superficial, and dont know nothing about them. Some of this men never grow up, and stay in physiological teenager that what they want is only friendship based in sex. Man, and special homosexual men exist in every part of world and is hard find some serious guy that arent in closet, are monogamous, loyal and treat love like gold. One of problems that we have in our world and make more harder find someone serious, is the problem sexaholic. People that focus their attention in images like porno movies, speed dates, treat people like objects, use friends to satisfy primary instint and say in next moment "bye". But in other side, in a little number exist men that want more that simple contact, men that want stablish a real connection and belong to someone else, so, they hard to find this one for share their lifes. For make a real family in this period, 21 to 50 because is when we are younger and for example for couples who want have kids, this period is very important.
Next and last, is when we are old... I dont know nothing about it yet... but I hope someday know what is. I think is a time that we look to our past and we want feel that what we maked was good and have proud of do that, so we can say that was a bless live and do things that we have many proud.
We arent imortal like I say, enjoy every minute of our life is precious, but when I say enjoy every minute is not make many things as possible, but give them the real value and choose the most important for us.